This morning two books strewn with rose petals were lying on my front doorstep. I knew immediately they'd been left by a beautiful young friend who reminds me to honor the light cast by our ordinary lives. John Kirvan writes about how we've been blinded by the bright light of heroes and saints. It's true. Then we use those stories to excuse ourselves from the demand of our own incarnation..
It is up to each of us to live with depth and care. The books are rose petals say that the simplest action conveys great tenderness and power for the journey if done by a loving heart. There are no "insignificant" lives, no celebrities. There is life. And we each decide whether or not we're willing to bring to life the power that lies within.
Another friend was pruning pansies, picking off their vivid petals of purple, yellow, orange. He flung them into the water that runs in front of his home. "i like to think", he said, "that they still have one more chance, floating on the water, to surprise and amaze someone paddling by on a kayak".
Life rests in OUR hands. Beauty is OURS to bestow. in such ordinary ways WE are light for the world.
--Paula D'Arcy--
Thursday, December 24, 2009
Sunday, December 20, 2009
A Letter from the Son of God
Written by: Unknown author
Submitted By: Melanie Keischer
Edited by: yours truly
It has come to my attention that many of you are upset that folks are taking My name out of the season. Maybe you've forgotten that I wasn't actually born during this time of the year and that it was some of your predecessors who decided to celebrate My birthday on what was actually a time of pagan festival. Although I do appreciate being remembered anytime.
How I personally feel about this celebration can probably be most easily understood by those of you who have been blessed with children
of your own. I don't care what you call the day. If you want to celebrate My birth, just GET ALONG AND LOVE ONE ANOTHER.
Now, having said that let Me go on. If it bothers you that the town in which you live doesn't allow a scene depicting My birth, then just get rid of a couple of Santa’s and snowmen and put in a small Nativity scene on your own front lawn. If all My followers did that there wouldn't be any need for such a scene on the town square because there would be many of them all around town.
Stop worrying about the fact that people are calling the tree a holiday tree, instead of a Christmas tree. It was I who made all trees. You can remember Me anytime you see any tree. Decorate a grape vine if you wish…
If you want to give Me a present in remembrance of My birth here is my
wish list:
1. Instead of writing protest letters objecting to the way My birthday is being celebrated, write letters of love and hope to soldiers away
from home. They are terribly afraid and lonely this time of year. I know, they tell Me all the time.
2. Visit someone in a nursing home. You don't have to know them personally. They just need to know that someone cares about them.
3. Instead of writing the President complaining about the wording on the cards his staff sent out this year, why don't you write and tell him that you'll be praying for him and his family this year. Then follow up. I’d like to hear from you again.
4. Instead of giving your children a lot of gifts you can't afford and they don't need, spend time with them. Tell them the story of My birth. Hold them in your arms and remind them that I love them.
5 Pick someone that has hurt you in the past and forgive him or her.
6. Did you know that someone in your town will attempt to take their own life this season because they feel so alone and hopeless? Since you don't know who that person is, try giving everyone you meet a warm smile; it could make the difference.
7. Even if people who work at a business aren't allowed to wish you a "Merry Christmas" that doesn't keep you from wishing them one.
8. If you really want to make a difference, support a missionary-- especially one who takes My love and Good News to those who have never heard My name.
9. Behave like a Christian. Don't do things in secret that you wouldn't do in My presence. Let people know by your actions that you are one of mine.
Don't forget; I am God and can take care of Myself. Just love Me and do
what I have told you to do. I'll take care of all the rest. Check out
the list above and get to work; time is short. I'll help you, but the
ball is now in your court. And do have a most blessed Christmas with
all those whom you love and remember :
I LOVE YOU,
JESUS
Submitted By: Melanie Keischer
Edited by: yours truly
It has come to my attention that many of you are upset that folks are taking My name out of the season. Maybe you've forgotten that I wasn't actually born during this time of the year and that it was some of your predecessors who decided to celebrate My birthday on what was actually a time of pagan festival. Although I do appreciate being remembered anytime.
How I personally feel about this celebration can probably be most easily understood by those of you who have been blessed with children
of your own. I don't care what you call the day. If you want to celebrate My birth, just GET ALONG AND LOVE ONE ANOTHER.
Now, having said that let Me go on. If it bothers you that the town in which you live doesn't allow a scene depicting My birth, then just get rid of a couple of Santa’s and snowmen and put in a small Nativity scene on your own front lawn. If all My followers did that there wouldn't be any need for such a scene on the town square because there would be many of them all around town.
Stop worrying about the fact that people are calling the tree a holiday tree, instead of a Christmas tree. It was I who made all trees. You can remember Me anytime you see any tree. Decorate a grape vine if you wish…
If you want to give Me a present in remembrance of My birth here is my
wish list:
1. Instead of writing protest letters objecting to the way My birthday is being celebrated, write letters of love and hope to soldiers away
from home. They are terribly afraid and lonely this time of year. I know, they tell Me all the time.
2. Visit someone in a nursing home. You don't have to know them personally. They just need to know that someone cares about them.
3. Instead of writing the President complaining about the wording on the cards his staff sent out this year, why don't you write and tell him that you'll be praying for him and his family this year. Then follow up. I’d like to hear from you again.
4. Instead of giving your children a lot of gifts you can't afford and they don't need, spend time with them. Tell them the story of My birth. Hold them in your arms and remind them that I love them.
5 Pick someone that has hurt you in the past and forgive him or her.
6. Did you know that someone in your town will attempt to take their own life this season because they feel so alone and hopeless? Since you don't know who that person is, try giving everyone you meet a warm smile; it could make the difference.
7. Even if people who work at a business aren't allowed to wish you a "Merry Christmas" that doesn't keep you from wishing them one.
8. If you really want to make a difference, support a missionary-- especially one who takes My love and Good News to those who have never heard My name.
9. Behave like a Christian. Don't do things in secret that you wouldn't do in My presence. Let people know by your actions that you are one of mine.
Don't forget; I am God and can take care of Myself. Just love Me and do
what I have told you to do. I'll take care of all the rest. Check out
the list above and get to work; time is short. I'll help you, but the
ball is now in your court. And do have a most blessed Christmas with
all those whom you love and remember :
I LOVE YOU,
JESUS
Wednesday, December 16, 2009
Hannukah
Being Catholic, I guess I don't really understand Hannukah, which doesn't make a lot of sense, because the miracle and victory that Haunnukah celebrates are part of my faith as well. So, being the insatiably curious person that I am, I searched out one of my friends who celebrates Hanukkah and had him explain it to me. The following explanation is a joint effort in explaining the holiday to youse (although all credit for outlandish references to 300 and pokemon goes to him):
Hanukkah or Chanukah, I haven’t met many people who actually care which way you spell it, is the Jewish holiday celebrating the miraculous extension of one days worth of oil over 8 days. It is also a celebration of the Maccabees’s 300-like victory over the army of the Seleucid Empire.
The most compelling similarity between the Maccabees and the army faced by the Spartans is the elephants, which the Seleucids housed in the temple. However, there are two very big differences, first and foremost the Maccabees won, and secondly The Maccabees’ military victory over the Greek-Syrians was a result of a plethora of raids rather than one large epic battle.
Recently for my family, and I think for many families, the celebration of the holiday has changed vastly. When I was little, our celebration would be a family gathering to light a small menorah accompanied by a few hours of story-telling and playing dreidel for portions of each other’s dessert.
Now we go over to my uncle’s house where he has started putting out a 15ft tall menorah and lighting a propane-powered candle every night at sunset which he keeps lit day and night until the end of Hanukkah.
Personally I feel this is a result of holiday envy and a tad unnecessary. However I seem to change my mind whenever I see those flames roar into the air, then I just wonder why people haven’t realized that a fire type always beats a water type. In the end, I suppose the actual way of celebration isn’t all that important as long as its with family and you keep the reasoning in mind.
Hope that helps :)
Happy Hannukah (day 6)
Hanukkah or Chanukah, I haven’t met many people who actually care which way you spell it, is the Jewish holiday celebrating the miraculous extension of one days worth of oil over 8 days. It is also a celebration of the Maccabees’s 300-like victory over the army of the Seleucid Empire.
The most compelling similarity between the Maccabees and the army faced by the Spartans is the elephants, which the Seleucids housed in the temple. However, there are two very big differences, first and foremost the Maccabees won, and secondly The Maccabees’ military victory over the Greek-Syrians was a result of a plethora of raids rather than one large epic battle.
Recently for my family, and I think for many families, the celebration of the holiday has changed vastly. When I was little, our celebration would be a family gathering to light a small menorah accompanied by a few hours of story-telling and playing dreidel for portions of each other’s dessert.
Now we go over to my uncle’s house where he has started putting out a 15ft tall menorah and lighting a propane-powered candle every night at sunset which he keeps lit day and night until the end of Hanukkah.
Personally I feel this is a result of holiday envy and a tad unnecessary. However I seem to change my mind whenever I see those flames roar into the air, then I just wonder why people haven’t realized that a fire type always beats a water type. In the end, I suppose the actual way of celebration isn’t all that important as long as its with family and you keep the reasoning in mind.
Hope that helps :)
Happy Hannukah (day 6)
Sunday, December 13, 2009
Gospel Reflection
In this week’s gospel, John the Baptist gets us excited for the coming of the Christ. He not only tells us to prepare ourselves for His coming, but gives us specific examples on how to do so. He emphasizes the fact that God will never ask more from us than we have the capability to give.
The first example of how we can live our lives better is by giving of what we have and sharing with those less fortunate than us. As I look around the chapel today and see the plethora of gifts we as Marist students have bought and wrapped my heart is filled with joy. It is not always easy to find the time and money to shop for others—especially those we do no know personally, but God calls to us to give from the heart not only this holiday season, but at all times.
John the Baptist tells the tax collectors to “collect no more than is appointed to you.” At first glance, this advice may seem irrelevant to us, but if we look to the deeper Meaning, there is a lesson there for all of us. John is simply telling us to not accept more than we are owed — this could be in terms of money for a service, gratitude for an action, or credit for a project. It is about being honest with both yourself and everyone around you. Don’t ask for more than you deserve, and don’t take from others what they cannot afford to give.
The third way in which today’s reading asks us to prepare ourselves, is one that should be obvious to all of us, and yet one that is probably one of the hardest to adhere to — stay away from violence and create peace. While we may not be violent creatures by nature, it is so easy to lash out and hurt others not only physically, but emotionally through our words and actions.
If only we could all remember that everyone is our brother or sister and that everyone is created in the likeness of God.
The first example of how we can live our lives better is by giving of what we have and sharing with those less fortunate than us. As I look around the chapel today and see the plethora of gifts we as Marist students have bought and wrapped my heart is filled with joy. It is not always easy to find the time and money to shop for others—especially those we do no know personally, but God calls to us to give from the heart not only this holiday season, but at all times.
John the Baptist tells the tax collectors to “collect no more than is appointed to you.” At first glance, this advice may seem irrelevant to us, but if we look to the deeper Meaning, there is a lesson there for all of us. John is simply telling us to not accept more than we are owed — this could be in terms of money for a service, gratitude for an action, or credit for a project. It is about being honest with both yourself and everyone around you. Don’t ask for more than you deserve, and don’t take from others what they cannot afford to give.
The third way in which today’s reading asks us to prepare ourselves, is one that should be obvious to all of us, and yet one that is probably one of the hardest to adhere to — stay away from violence and create peace. While we may not be violent creatures by nature, it is so easy to lash out and hurt others not only physically, but emotionally through our words and actions.
If only we could all remember that everyone is our brother or sister and that everyone is created in the likeness of God.
Saturday, December 5, 2009
Questions Without Answer
As you know, every now and again my posts are written by other people. This is one of those occasions.
Courtesy of Megan Francis:
Death is not an easy subject to write about, so please pardon the clichés, and pardon how irresolute this piece ends...Irresolution and death just go hand-in-hand..
Death triggers so many more questions than there are answers on the subject. The imbalance is unfair. And the questions are endless, sometimes even senseless, yet they constantly resurface when tragedy comes, uninvited of course. Questions vary from person to person. And they usually change as the mourner progresses through the different stages of grief.
Some people are haunted with the notion of why did ___ die when it was clear how good of a person he/she was? Did God have bigger things planned for __? Is __ in heaven right now amused over our confusion? Some questions leave you feeling angry. Irate even. Others leave you feeling guilty. I urge you not to dwell on the guilt-provoking questions. The burden of such ambiguity is unfair for any person to carry -- so clear those thoughts from your conscious.
Focus on the more inspirational questions instead. Ask yourself: What lesson am I supposed to take away from this tragedy? There is always a lesson, sometimes there are multiple lessons. You have to discover this for yourself. It may be something as cliché as accepting the tragic notion that sometimes life just isn’t fair. Or the tragedy may have served to remind you of how incredibly fragile and uncertain life is.
There is no time restraint with discovering the lesson for yourself. It could take days, weeks, years even. There’s no rush. But once you have discovered the intended lesson, next ask yourself: “how will I be remembered when my time comes?” Accept the fact that the choices you make today shape how you will be remembered; they form the legacy you will leave. It may be chilling, but it’s true.
Allow the question of your legacy to resurface as a means to both remind and inspire.
Finally, stop with the questions all together. And just remember. Remember every last detail about the person. Remember their aspirations. Remember their dreams. Remember their favorite candy, favorite band, favorite place. Honor all of these things about them.
In doing this, the deceased is never really gone, just somewhere else, somewhere we cannot easily see. They’re probably laughing over how stressed we get over the most trivial of things. Or maybe they’re waiting for us. Or maybe they’re helping us. Maybe they’re doing it all.
Courtesy of Megan Francis:
Death is not an easy subject to write about, so please pardon the clichés, and pardon how irresolute this piece ends...Irresolution and death just go hand-in-hand..
Death triggers so many more questions than there are answers on the subject. The imbalance is unfair. And the questions are endless, sometimes even senseless, yet they constantly resurface when tragedy comes, uninvited of course. Questions vary from person to person. And they usually change as the mourner progresses through the different stages of grief.
Some people are haunted with the notion of why did ___ die when it was clear how good of a person he/she was? Did God have bigger things planned for __? Is __ in heaven right now amused over our confusion? Some questions leave you feeling angry. Irate even. Others leave you feeling guilty. I urge you not to dwell on the guilt-provoking questions. The burden of such ambiguity is unfair for any person to carry -- so clear those thoughts from your conscious.
Focus on the more inspirational questions instead. Ask yourself: What lesson am I supposed to take away from this tragedy? There is always a lesson, sometimes there are multiple lessons. You have to discover this for yourself. It may be something as cliché as accepting the tragic notion that sometimes life just isn’t fair. Or the tragedy may have served to remind you of how incredibly fragile and uncertain life is.
There is no time restraint with discovering the lesson for yourself. It could take days, weeks, years even. There’s no rush. But once you have discovered the intended lesson, next ask yourself: “how will I be remembered when my time comes?” Accept the fact that the choices you make today shape how you will be remembered; they form the legacy you will leave. It may be chilling, but it’s true.
Allow the question of your legacy to resurface as a means to both remind and inspire.
Finally, stop with the questions all together. And just remember. Remember every last detail about the person. Remember their aspirations. Remember their dreams. Remember their favorite candy, favorite band, favorite place. Honor all of these things about them.
In doing this, the deceased is never really gone, just somewhere else, somewhere we cannot easily see. They’re probably laughing over how stressed we get over the most trivial of things. Or maybe they’re waiting for us. Or maybe they’re helping us. Maybe they’re doing it all.
Sunday, November 29, 2009
Waiting
On this first Sunday of Advent, I am going to reflect on something that we as a society are not very good at: waiting. In a world of instant gratification it is hard to be patient. I know that I for one am incredibly easily annoyed by having to wait for others when I want to leave or partake in something. Patience is a virtue not easily attained.
In today's world of the internet, fast cars, and text messaging, it is uncommon that we have to wait for anything. Not sure of an answer? Wikipedia it. Out with your friends? No problem, just text google and wait 0.06 seconds for the response. You can't even blink that fast and the answer is already there for you. Between texing, instant messaging and Facebook seeing who's available to chill takes less time than ever. And with newer and safer standards at the internet we can shop for and purchase practically anything and have it on our doorstep within a week ... within 24 hours if strictly necessary.
And buisnesses are begining to cater to our "here and now" mindset. Stores have two to three times more cash regesiters than ever before. Why? Because as a generation waiting in line is no longer an option. It angers us. It frustrates us. So much so, that there's a possibility that we might leave.
But here we are, on the 29th of November, ready to settle down and wait for what we, as Christians, see as most important - the birth of Jesus. Once the chaos of Thanksgiving dies down and we are able to take stock of our lives, we are able to see clearly what it is we want most - hope, joy, peace, love, family. These are not difficult desires for us to formulate. We crave them more than anything else in the world. And yet, we can't just have it. We have to work for it. Plan for it. Prepare for it. and yes, wait for it.
That is the whole point of Advent. To wait for the coming of the Christ child. We cannot just wake up one morning and be ready for Him. We have to prepare our selves - mind, body and spririt - to welcome Him into our lives. We have to think about what we can change in our lives to make it better for everyone. We have to plannout how we intend to use all the peace and joy Jesus
will bring with Him when He is born. And we need to prepare ourselves by making sure we are the best people we can possibly be.
I think I'll start by learning to be more patient.
In today's world of the internet, fast cars, and text messaging, it is uncommon that we have to wait for anything. Not sure of an answer? Wikipedia it. Out with your friends? No problem, just text google and wait 0.06 seconds for the response. You can't even blink that fast and the answer is already there for you. Between texing, instant messaging and Facebook seeing who's available to chill takes less time than ever. And with newer and safer standards at the internet we can shop for and purchase practically anything and have it on our doorstep within a week ... within 24 hours if strictly necessary.
And buisnesses are begining to cater to our "here and now" mindset. Stores have two to three times more cash regesiters than ever before. Why? Because as a generation waiting in line is no longer an option. It angers us. It frustrates us. So much so, that there's a possibility that we might leave.
But here we are, on the 29th of November, ready to settle down and wait for what we, as Christians, see as most important - the birth of Jesus. Once the chaos of Thanksgiving dies down and we are able to take stock of our lives, we are able to see clearly what it is we want most - hope, joy, peace, love, family. These are not difficult desires for us to formulate. We crave them more than anything else in the world. And yet, we can't just have it. We have to work for it. Plan for it. Prepare for it. and yes, wait for it.
That is the whole point of Advent. To wait for the coming of the Christ child. We cannot just wake up one morning and be ready for Him. We have to prepare our selves - mind, body and spririt - to welcome Him into our lives. We have to think about what we can change in our lives to make it better for everyone. We have to plannout how we intend to use all the peace and joy Jesus
will bring with Him when He is born. And we need to prepare ourselves by making sure we are the best people we can possibly be.
I think I'll start by learning to be more patient.
Thursday, November 26, 2009
Thanks on Thanksgiving
This Thanksgiving look around for something unique to be thankful for. I'm not saying you shouldn't be thankful for family and friends and music and food and that you have a roof over your head - there are thousands of people who aren't blessed with such things. But instead of the memorized list of things that we all spout off every Thanksgiving, this year try and be thankful for the things that truly special in YOUR life.
My sister recommended this activity to me. Go through the alphabet and say what you're thankful for at each letter. It makes you think. It shouldn't seem forced, it's a cathartic experience, and when you're done, you'll be amazed at all the small miracles in your life you have to be thankful for - things you almost feel silly admitting are that important to you, but nonetheless your life wouldn't be as blessed without...
[I'm willing to share my list with you, so here goes...]
A: asparagus
B: balloons, basketball, bikes
C: camp, cats, chocolate, cuddling
D: daytime, digital watches
E: everyone I’ve ever met
F: friends, family, fluffy pillows, fireplaces
G: Gouda cheese, Gilbert Grape
H: horses, hugs, high-fives
I: ice-cream, imagination
J: Jesus
K: kite flying
L: love
M:meteor showers (or at least waiting for one), make-believe
N: new friends
O:old friends, outer space
P: Pumpkins, purple, parachute games, pie
Q: quests, quotes that inspire or make you laugh
R: rainbows, running, rugby
S: sun-showers, superheroes, snowmen
T: tents, Tohikanee (“there’s no place I’d rather be, than with you at Tohikanee”), tie-dye
U: underwear (come on, admit it, you’re thankful for them now that you’re thinking about it)
V: voting
W: waterfalls
X: X-C races and adventures
Y: you
Z: zebras
HAPPY THANKSGIVING EVERYONE!
My sister recommended this activity to me. Go through the alphabet and say what you're thankful for at each letter. It makes you think. It shouldn't seem forced, it's a cathartic experience, and when you're done, you'll be amazed at all the small miracles in your life you have to be thankful for - things you almost feel silly admitting are that important to you, but nonetheless your life wouldn't be as blessed without...
[I'm willing to share my list with you, so here goes...]
A: asparagus
B: balloons, basketball, bikes
C: camp, cats, chocolate, cuddling
D: daytime, digital watches
E: everyone I’ve ever met
F: friends, family, fluffy pillows, fireplaces
G: Gouda cheese, Gilbert Grape
H: horses, hugs, high-fives
I: ice-cream, imagination
J: Jesus
K: kite flying
L: love
M:meteor showers (or at least waiting for one), make-believe
N: new friends
O:old friends, outer space
P: Pumpkins, purple, parachute games, pie
Q: quests, quotes that inspire or make you laugh
R: rainbows, running, rugby
S: sun-showers, superheroes, snowmen
T: tents, Tohikanee (“there’s no place I’d rather be, than with you at Tohikanee”), tie-dye
U: underwear (come on, admit it, you’re thankful for them now that you’re thinking about it)
V: voting
W: waterfalls
X: X-C races and adventures
Y: you
Z: zebras
HAPPY THANKSGIVING EVERYONE!
Sunday, November 22, 2009
Today's gospel reflection
Before I post today's gospel reflection, I would like to appologize for being so crappy at putting up new posts this semester. It's not that I don't have anything to say either! - It just hasn't been happening. But anyways, without further ado, your weekly-ish gospel reflection:
Today’s gospel reading is one we have all heard many times before. However, there are many small lessons to be gleaned from it.
The first is one that can easily be missed – blame. Pilot, like us on many occasions is immediately uncomfortable when Jesus asks him if there are his accusations or not. Pilot passes the blame on to others instead of taking his own stand. It was not Pilot’s idea to hand Jesus over, but by refusing to take responsibility or to step in and put a stop to it, he became a central character in the story. From this we should realize how essential it is to not only stand up for what we believe in, but to question the motives of those who are acting immorally.
The second thing Jesus expresses in this very short reading is the awesome strength of heaven. He alludes to the great power of the angels. From this we are reminded of the almighty influence and power of God. It should be comforting to know that someone with such authority is watching us with careful eyes and a loving hand.
The third aspect of today’s gospel is Jesus’ mission. He acknowledges that the reason for his human birth is to save humanity from itself saying “for this I was born, and for this I have come into the world”. He shies away from the word king; this is not a title the humble Jesus would bestow upon himself. God sent us his only Son so that we can be the great people He wants us to be and capitalize on our capacity for good by following in Jesus’ example.
This example is our guideline for life. In today’s gospel reading Jesus tells us one very important way to become closer to him stating, “Everyone who is of the truth hears my voice”. Telling the truth is a basic, yet incredibly difficult, part of our role as good Catholics. Many times it is easier to tell small lies, more rewarding to exaggerate, or less trouble for us to omit the truth . But if we remember that these false truths turn us away from God’s voice, then we realize it is much better to suffer the consequences of the truth in life than to suffer the consequences of deceit in death.
Today’s gospel reading is one we have all heard many times before. However, there are many small lessons to be gleaned from it.
The first is one that can easily be missed – blame. Pilot, like us on many occasions is immediately uncomfortable when Jesus asks him if there are his accusations or not. Pilot passes the blame on to others instead of taking his own stand. It was not Pilot’s idea to hand Jesus over, but by refusing to take responsibility or to step in and put a stop to it, he became a central character in the story. From this we should realize how essential it is to not only stand up for what we believe in, but to question the motives of those who are acting immorally.
The second thing Jesus expresses in this very short reading is the awesome strength of heaven. He alludes to the great power of the angels. From this we are reminded of the almighty influence and power of God. It should be comforting to know that someone with such authority is watching us with careful eyes and a loving hand.
The third aspect of today’s gospel is Jesus’ mission. He acknowledges that the reason for his human birth is to save humanity from itself saying “for this I was born, and for this I have come into the world”. He shies away from the word king; this is not a title the humble Jesus would bestow upon himself. God sent us his only Son so that we can be the great people He wants us to be and capitalize on our capacity for good by following in Jesus’ example.
This example is our guideline for life. In today’s gospel reading Jesus tells us one very important way to become closer to him stating, “Everyone who is of the truth hears my voice”. Telling the truth is a basic, yet incredibly difficult, part of our role as good Catholics. Many times it is easier to tell small lies, more rewarding to exaggerate, or less trouble for us to omit the truth . But if we remember that these false truths turn us away from God’s voice, then we realize it is much better to suffer the consequences of the truth in life than to suffer the consequences of deceit in death.
Monday, November 9, 2009
Saint Godfrey
St. Godfrey was born around 1066 at Molincourt in France. His parents gave him to the church where he received his education from the monks of Mont-Saint-Quentin. Godfrey eventually became a monk and then a priest. He was chosen to be abbot of the abbey of Our Lady of Nogent in Champagne, France in 1095. The monastery was run-down and only six monks remained. He renovated the edifices and built a hostelry for pilgrims and the sick poor; and in this hostelry he himself continued to labor on their behalf. In a short while, the community was fervent and new candidates joined them. The abbey of Champagne became a center of prayer and spiritual joy.
He was offered the abbacy of Saint-Remi, but he refused. He was also offered the bishopric of Reims in 1097, but again he refused, claiming he was unworthy. When he was offered the bishopric of Amiens in 1104, he still considered himself unworthy of the trust. However, King Philip and the Council of Troyes each ordered him to take it, so he did. Though he was hesitant to leave his monastery, he realized that it was his calling to serve the people of Rheims. While bishop, he still lived like a simple monk. His house was poor but clean. His food was plain. Once in a while, his cook prepared food that seemed to him too fancy. Godfrey would wait until the cook was out on errands. Then he would call in the poor people who lived nearby. He would give them the food to take home to their families.
St. Godfrey was noted for his rigid austerity with himself, those around him, and in his approach to his mission as bishop. He was an enforcer of clerical celibacy. He was also a fierce lifelong opponent of drunkenness and simony, which led to an attempt on his life. For most of his time as bishop, he wished to resign and retire and become a Carthusian monk. In 1114, he moved to a monastery, but a few months later his people demanded his return, and he agreed. He also took part in the Council of Chálons. He died in November, 1115. His feast day is celebrated on November 8.
He was offered the abbacy of Saint-Remi, but he refused. He was also offered the bishopric of Reims in 1097, but again he refused, claiming he was unworthy. When he was offered the bishopric of Amiens in 1104, he still considered himself unworthy of the trust. However, King Philip and the Council of Troyes each ordered him to take it, so he did. Though he was hesitant to leave his monastery, he realized that it was his calling to serve the people of Rheims. While bishop, he still lived like a simple monk. His house was poor but clean. His food was plain. Once in a while, his cook prepared food that seemed to him too fancy. Godfrey would wait until the cook was out on errands. Then he would call in the poor people who lived nearby. He would give them the food to take home to their families.
St. Godfrey was noted for his rigid austerity with himself, those around him, and in his approach to his mission as bishop. He was an enforcer of clerical celibacy. He was also a fierce lifelong opponent of drunkenness and simony, which led to an attempt on his life. For most of his time as bishop, he wished to resign and retire and become a Carthusian monk. In 1114, he moved to a monastery, but a few months later his people demanded his return, and he agreed. He also took part in the Council of Chálons. He died in November, 1115. His feast day is celebrated on November 8.
Saturday, November 7, 2009
Gospel Reflection for Sunday, November 8, 2009
In today’s Gospel reading we see how understanding our God really is. He does not ask us to give more than is possible for us (although sometimes we may feel like He is); He merely asks that we do what we can. Whether it is a gift of time, talent, or money, God is satisfied as long as it is given from the heart and with the right intentions.
While many of us may judge each other based on financial success, it is comforting to know that our Father in heaven only judges on the contents of our hearts. If all we have to offer is a smile to a friend, a helping hand to a stranger, or a simple song of thanks, than God accepts these graciously.
Maybe we should follow in this example. Instead of scoffing the next time we see someone not give as much as we did in terms of time, effort or even money, we should strive to see their contribution from their perspective—it is impossible for us to know the stories of those around us and the inner battles they may be fighting.
So when your classmate does not put the same time commitment into the project as
you, or your housemate fails to chip in to cover the cost of the weekend’s expenditures, instead of writing this person off, try and dig deep within yourself and really do what Jesus would do: don’t judge on face value, but take the time to appreciate that you are lucky to be able to give what you can.
And the one thing all of us can give, no matter our economical, scholastic, or physical situation is love. And that, as we can deduce from the commandments and Jesus’ teachings, is a gift that God treasures above all other gifts. So give love often. Give it freely. And give it to everyone you meet. Not only does doing God’s work on earth pay off now in unexpected ways, His retirement plan is awesome
While many of us may judge each other based on financial success, it is comforting to know that our Father in heaven only judges on the contents of our hearts. If all we have to offer is a smile to a friend, a helping hand to a stranger, or a simple song of thanks, than God accepts these graciously.
Maybe we should follow in this example. Instead of scoffing the next time we see someone not give as much as we did in terms of time, effort or even money, we should strive to see their contribution from their perspective—it is impossible for us to know the stories of those around us and the inner battles they may be fighting.
So when your classmate does not put the same time commitment into the project as
you, or your housemate fails to chip in to cover the cost of the weekend’s expenditures, instead of writing this person off, try and dig deep within yourself and really do what Jesus would do: don’t judge on face value, but take the time to appreciate that you are lucky to be able to give what you can.
And the one thing all of us can give, no matter our economical, scholastic, or physical situation is love. And that, as we can deduce from the commandments and Jesus’ teachings, is a gift that God treasures above all other gifts. So give love often. Give it freely. And give it to everyone you meet. Not only does doing God’s work on earth pay off now in unexpected ways, His retirement plan is awesome
Wednesday, November 4, 2009
Your Questions Answered by Father LaMorte
Q - How can I determine what is sin?
Personally and generally, it violates the respect I should have for myself, my neighbor or God.
Jesus said: Love God and Love neighbor as you would love yourself. The ten Commandments indicate the ways in which we should relate to God and to our neighbor. Church teaching elaborates on these ways relative to the time and place we live in.
Q -If someone does something that is wrong, but isn't fully conscious that it's wrong, or doesn't give the full consent of his/her will, would it be a sin [ i.e. - something that 'injures or breaks our relationship with another or God] ?
No! Unless what I do is definitely in violation of God's law [how we should respect our relationships], I give my consent and I have full intention; it is not a sin, but it can make me more susceptible to sin.
Personally and generally, it violates the respect I should have for myself, my neighbor or God.
Jesus said: Love God and Love neighbor as you would love yourself. The ten Commandments indicate the ways in which we should relate to God and to our neighbor. Church teaching elaborates on these ways relative to the time and place we live in.
Q -If someone does something that is wrong, but isn't fully conscious that it's wrong, or doesn't give the full consent of his/her will, would it be a sin [ i.e. - something that 'injures or breaks our relationship with another or God] ?
No! Unless what I do is definitely in violation of God's law [how we should respect our relationships], I give my consent and I have full intention; it is not a sin, but it can make me more susceptible to sin.
Wednesday, October 28, 2009
A joke
i hate posting two new things so close to each other, but this made me chuckle. a lot...
After getting all of Pope Benedict's luggage loaded into the limo, (and he doesn't travel light), the driver notices the Pope is still standing on the curb.
'Excuse me, Your Holiness,' says the driver, 'Would you please take your seat so we can leave?'
'Well, to tell you the truth,' says the Pope, 'they never let me drive at the Vatican when I was a cardinal, and I'd really like to drive today.'
'I'm sorry, Your Holiness, but I cannot let you do that.. I'd lose my job! What if something should happen?' protests the driver, wishing he'd never gone to work that morning...
'Who's going to tell?' says the Pope with a smile.
Reluctantly, the driver gets in the back as the Pope climbs in behind the wheel. The driver quickly regrets his decision when, after exiting the airport, the Pontiff floors it, accelerating the limo to 115 mph. (Remember, the Pope is German..)
'Please slow down, Your Holiness!' pleads the worried driver, but the Pope keeps the pedal to the metal until they hear sirens and see flashing lights.
'Oh, dear God, I'm going to lose my license -- and my job!' moans the driver.
The Pope pulls over and rolls down the window as the cop approaches, but the cop takes one look at him, goes back to his motorcycle, and gets on the radio.
'I need to talk to the Chief,' he says to the dispatcher.
The Chief gets on the radio and the cop tells him that he's stopped a limo going 115 mph
'So bust him,' says the Chief.
'I don't think we want to do that, he's really important,' said the cop.
The Chief exclaimed,' All the more reason!'
'No, I mean really important,' said the cop with a bit of persistence.
The Chief then asked, 'Who do you have there, the mayor?'
Cop: 'Bigger.'
Chief: ' A senator?'
Cop: 'Bigger.'
Chief: 'The President?'
Cop: 'Bigger..'
'Well,' said the Chief, 'who is it?'
Cop: 'I think it's God!'
The Chief is even more puzzled and curious, 'What makes you think it's God?'
Cop: 'His chauffeur is the Pope!'
After getting all of Pope Benedict's luggage loaded into the limo, (and he doesn't travel light), the driver notices the Pope is still standing on the curb.
'Excuse me, Your Holiness,' says the driver, 'Would you please take your seat so we can leave?'
'Well, to tell you the truth,' says the Pope, 'they never let me drive at the Vatican when I was a cardinal, and I'd really like to drive today.'
'I'm sorry, Your Holiness, but I cannot let you do that.. I'd lose my job! What if something should happen?' protests the driver, wishing he'd never gone to work that morning...
'Who's going to tell?' says the Pope with a smile.
Reluctantly, the driver gets in the back as the Pope climbs in behind the wheel. The driver quickly regrets his decision when, after exiting the airport, the Pontiff floors it, accelerating the limo to 115 mph. (Remember, the Pope is German..)
'Please slow down, Your Holiness!' pleads the worried driver, but the Pope keeps the pedal to the metal until they hear sirens and see flashing lights.
'Oh, dear God, I'm going to lose my license -- and my job!' moans the driver.
The Pope pulls over and rolls down the window as the cop approaches, but the cop takes one look at him, goes back to his motorcycle, and gets on the radio.
'I need to talk to the Chief,' he says to the dispatcher.
The Chief gets on the radio and the cop tells him that he's stopped a limo going 115 mph
'So bust him,' says the Chief.
'I don't think we want to do that, he's really important,' said the cop.
The Chief exclaimed,' All the more reason!'
'No, I mean really important,' said the cop with a bit of persistence.
The Chief then asked, 'Who do you have there, the mayor?'
Cop: 'Bigger.'
Chief: ' A senator?'
Cop: 'Bigger.'
Chief: 'The President?'
Cop: 'Bigger..'
'Well,' said the Chief, 'who is it?'
Cop: 'I think it's God!'
The Chief is even more puzzled and curious, 'What makes you think it's God?'
Cop: 'His chauffeur is the Pope!'
Good to think about
My Dad sent me this prayer, and it's sooo true. You never know what battles people are fighting on the inside so don't judge...
Heavenly Father, Help us remember that the jerk who cut us off in traffic last night is a single mother who worked nine hours that day and is rushing home to cook dinner, help with homework, do the laundry and spend a few precious moments with her children.
Help us to remember that the pierced, tattooed, disinterested young man who can't make change correctly is a worried 19-year-old college student, balancing his apprehension over final exams with his fear of not getting his student loans for next semester.
Remind us, Lord, that the scary looking bum, begging for money in the same spot every day (who really ought to get a job!) is a slave to addictions that we can only imagine in our worst nightmares.
Help us to remember that the old couple walking annoyingly slow through the store aisles an d blocking our shopping progress are savoring this moment, knowing that, based on the biopsy report she got back last week, this will be the last year that they go shopping together.
Heavenly Father, remind us each day that, of all the gifts you give us, the greatest gift is love. It is not enough to share that love with those we hold dear. Open our hearts not to just those who are close to us, but to all humanity. Let us be slow to judge and quick to forgive, show patience, empathy and love.
Working for God on earth doesn't pay much......but His retirement plan is out of this world
Heavenly Father, Help us remember that the jerk who cut us off in traffic last night is a single mother who worked nine hours that day and is rushing home to cook dinner, help with homework, do the laundry and spend a few precious moments with her children.
Help us to remember that the pierced, tattooed, disinterested young man who can't make change correctly is a worried 19-year-old college student, balancing his apprehension over final exams with his fear of not getting his student loans for next semester.
Remind us, Lord, that the scary looking bum, begging for money in the same spot every day (who really ought to get a job!) is a slave to addictions that we can only imagine in our worst nightmares.
Help us to remember that the old couple walking annoyingly slow through the store aisles an d blocking our shopping progress are savoring this moment, knowing that, based on the biopsy report she got back last week, this will be the last year that they go shopping together.
Heavenly Father, remind us each day that, of all the gifts you give us, the greatest gift is love. It is not enough to share that love with those we hold dear. Open our hearts not to just those who are close to us, but to all humanity. Let us be slow to judge and quick to forgive, show patience, empathy and love.
Working for God on earth doesn't pay much......but His retirement plan is out of this world
Monday, October 26, 2009
prayer request
Hey all,
I have a very special prayer request for all of you. Recently one of my friend's and teammate's brothers died. I ask that you can keep her and her family in your prayers these next few days as they deal with this hardship. Also, please keep her brother, Mikey, in your prayers as well. He was a firefighter and a good man. He will be greatly missed.
Thank you all.
I have a very special prayer request for all of you. Recently one of my friend's and teammate's brothers died. I ask that you can keep her and her family in your prayers these next few days as they deal with this hardship. Also, please keep her brother, Mikey, in your prayers as well. He was a firefighter and a good man. He will be greatly missed.
Thank you all.
Thursday, October 22, 2009
A Rae of Hope
I would like to thank all the hundreds of Marist students who took time out of their day last Wednesday to go to Applebees to support the Sloan-Kettering Cancer society and Rae. The turnout was phenomenal! Better than anyone would have expected...
Allison Burke, one of Rae's teammates, shares her perspective...
I took a lap inside Applebee’s last Wednesday evening. I passed Marist’s dean of the school of management, a statistics professor, the director of housing, counselors, and Father Richard Lamorte, on my right. On my left, I passed Marist’s assistant athletic director, the athlete’s academic advisor, the women’s basketball team and coaches, the water polo team, the baseball team, and football coach Jim Parady. And in between, every booth was filled with familiar students.
The hostess told each party they would have to wait an hour to be seated, but ran out of buzzers to give each of them. So they waited outside in 30-degree weather for a table to open up. But by the end of the night, over $650 was donated to Memorial Sloan-Kettering Pediatrics Cancer Center in Raeanna Gutkowski’s name.
“Applebee's told us they are never that crowded - not even on Friday's or Saturday's,” said senior Alicia Mattiello.
Mattiello is one of the four group members who created the “A Rae of Hope” event series in honor of our teammate, Gutkowski. Rae left campus last spring after being diagnosed with Osteosarcoma, but appreciates the capstone project.
“Just because I got sick, doesn’t mean I would ever ask for anything in return,” said Rae. “But nevertheless, the support and love that people from my home and the Marist community give has been overwhelming. It makes me speechless and I just want to cry because I have so much emotion that I can’t put into words.”
Like many collegiate athletes, Rae suffered a knee injury in the middle of spring practice. But unlike most 20-year-old volleyball players, Rae’s test results revealed the unimaginable reality of bone cancer.
While Rae continues to battle cancer, the volleyball team will play a benefit game for her.
“It is just one more thing that my teammates and coaches have done to make me feel so special,” said Rae.
On Nov. 1, the Foxy Ladies will face Iona to complete the “A Rae of Hope” event series. Admission is free, but prizes such as sports memorabilia and local restaurant gift certificates will be raffled off and donations will be accepted to raise money for Rae.
Medical complications have pushed Rae’s return to campus back farther. But as long as her chemotherapy schedule permits, she will attend the game and complete our 12-person roster.
Last Saturday, Marist President Denis Murray was part of our pre-match huddle. He congratulated the team and project’s group members. “A Rae of Hope” carries the Marist spirit in place of its missing member, who has a message for all of us.
“Everyone around our age looks at cancer as something they don’t need to think about for another 50 years,” said Rae. “But unfortunately, that isn’t true. Your life can be changed in a heartbeat, so enjoy your health, take care of yourself, and have fun in college!”
Allison Burke, one of Rae's teammates, shares her perspective...
I took a lap inside Applebee’s last Wednesday evening. I passed Marist’s dean of the school of management, a statistics professor, the director of housing, counselors, and Father Richard Lamorte, on my right. On my left, I passed Marist’s assistant athletic director, the athlete’s academic advisor, the women’s basketball team and coaches, the water polo team, the baseball team, and football coach Jim Parady. And in between, every booth was filled with familiar students.
The hostess told each party they would have to wait an hour to be seated, but ran out of buzzers to give each of them. So they waited outside in 30-degree weather for a table to open up. But by the end of the night, over $650 was donated to Memorial Sloan-Kettering Pediatrics Cancer Center in Raeanna Gutkowski’s name.
“Applebee's told us they are never that crowded - not even on Friday's or Saturday's,” said senior Alicia Mattiello.
Mattiello is one of the four group members who created the “A Rae of Hope” event series in honor of our teammate, Gutkowski. Rae left campus last spring after being diagnosed with Osteosarcoma, but appreciates the capstone project.
“Just because I got sick, doesn’t mean I would ever ask for anything in return,” said Rae. “But nevertheless, the support and love that people from my home and the Marist community give has been overwhelming. It makes me speechless and I just want to cry because I have so much emotion that I can’t put into words.”
Like many collegiate athletes, Rae suffered a knee injury in the middle of spring practice. But unlike most 20-year-old volleyball players, Rae’s test results revealed the unimaginable reality of bone cancer.
While Rae continues to battle cancer, the volleyball team will play a benefit game for her.
“It is just one more thing that my teammates and coaches have done to make me feel so special,” said Rae.
On Nov. 1, the Foxy Ladies will face Iona to complete the “A Rae of Hope” event series. Admission is free, but prizes such as sports memorabilia and local restaurant gift certificates will be raffled off and donations will be accepted to raise money for Rae.
Medical complications have pushed Rae’s return to campus back farther. But as long as her chemotherapy schedule permits, she will attend the game and complete our 12-person roster.
Last Saturday, Marist President Denis Murray was part of our pre-match huddle. He congratulated the team and project’s group members. “A Rae of Hope” carries the Marist spirit in place of its missing member, who has a message for all of us.
“Everyone around our age looks at cancer as something they don’t need to think about for another 50 years,” said Rae. “But unfortunately, that isn’t true. Your life can be changed in a heartbeat, so enjoy your health, take care of yourself, and have fun in college!”
Tuesday, October 20, 2009
Father LaMorte answers a question
Among the questions that have been submitted via the '?' cards available in the Chapel was:
"Is the mass an absolute requirement?”
The short answer: Yes.
And not only are we required to go, but it is considered a grave matter of sin if we do not go (and otherwise reasonably could have gone). This is a judgment that the person has to make.
From the beginning, the Church has always seen this as the primary (and bare minimum) fulfillment of the 3rd commandment: Keep holy the Sabbath day (the Christian Sabbath being The Lord’s Day). In the full Christian sense, “keeping the Sabbath holy” is to actually participate in the most fundamental of Christian celebrations - the mass.
Perhaps, the question might be raised as to whether the Resurrection would be considered important enough to warrant our not wanting to miss an opportunity to join in the communities celebration of it. This is the most deliberately specific thing that Jesus gave Christians to do after he left (“Do this in memory of me”).
And I contemplate that we truly, physically receive the body and blood of Christ - of God Himself - at every Mass. And I consider that communion with God is the ultimate goal of my life. Then I can’t wait to go. Attending mass is not just an obligation, it’s a privilege! It’s a gift.
"Is the mass an absolute requirement?”
The short answer: Yes.
And not only are we required to go, but it is considered a grave matter of sin if we do not go (and otherwise reasonably could have gone). This is a judgment that the person has to make.
From the beginning, the Church has always seen this as the primary (and bare minimum) fulfillment of the 3rd commandment: Keep holy the Sabbath day (the Christian Sabbath being The Lord’s Day). In the full Christian sense, “keeping the Sabbath holy” is to actually participate in the most fundamental of Christian celebrations - the mass.
Perhaps, the question might be raised as to whether the Resurrection would be considered important enough to warrant our not wanting to miss an opportunity to join in the communities celebration of it. This is the most deliberately specific thing that Jesus gave Christians to do after he left (“Do this in memory of me”).
And I contemplate that we truly, physically receive the body and blood of Christ - of God Himself - at every Mass. And I consider that communion with God is the ultimate goal of my life. Then I can’t wait to go. Attending mass is not just an obligation, it’s a privilege! It’s a gift.
Sunday, October 4, 2009
Gospel Reflection
In the second half of today’s gospel reading Jesus rebukes His disciples for hindering the children from coming to Him. We are all children of God—what is it that stands in our way and causes us to stray?
Today’s reading clearly demonstrates God’s love for all of us as He reiterates how much He wants to see us, wants to help us, wants to just be there for us in any way. It is our own shortcomings that prevent us from feeling Him at our sides at every moment.
So I challenge you all to look inside yourselves and find exactly what it is that is keeping you from running into God’s outstretched arms and confiding wholly in Him.
Discard your distractions, your feelings of inadequacy, even those people and events that deter you from seeking out God’s presence in every day life. Trust Him. Trust yourself. Allow yourself to accept the endless blessings.
Today’s reading clearly demonstrates God’s love for all of us as He reiterates how much He wants to see us, wants to help us, wants to just be there for us in any way. It is our own shortcomings that prevent us from feeling Him at our sides at every moment.
So I challenge you all to look inside yourselves and find exactly what it is that is keeping you from running into God’s outstretched arms and confiding wholly in Him.
Discard your distractions, your feelings of inadequacy, even those people and events that deter you from seeking out God’s presence in every day life. Trust Him. Trust yourself. Allow yourself to accept the endless blessings.
Friday, October 2, 2009
Find time for thank-yous
If you 're like me, you don’t thank God nearly as much as you should. Thoughts of all the homework, laundry, and cleaning you have to do later, or this past weekend’s escapades, or next week’s plans consume your mind. When you’re always running around, rushing from one assignment to the next, from the gym to the shower, to dinner, and back to homework- with a little bit of texting, chatting, and Facebooking in between it is so easy to forget to thank God regularly. The notion that God is the reason we are blessed with an awesome family, group of friends ,and an opportunity to attend Marist slips our minds all too often, or at least for me it does.
Realizing God’s influence in all the good (and even the bad) things in your life can be extremely uplifting. I am sure there are some aspects of your life that you wish were different, but put those thoughts aside for a minute. Instead think about all the blessings in your life. Try and list them all in your head. Doing this puts things into perspective better.
It’s okay to be stressed about an upcoming test or a fight with your significant other, but before these sorts of things become overbearing, realize how much you have to be thankful for in the grand scheme of things; take a change to count your blessings and you may be surprised just how many of them there are.
In between classes, tests, papers, laundry, the gym, text messages, and Facebook, take a little break to recognize God’s incredible generosity in your life… and then don’t forget to say thank-you for it.
Realizing God’s influence in all the good (and even the bad) things in your life can be extremely uplifting. I am sure there are some aspects of your life that you wish were different, but put those thoughts aside for a minute. Instead think about all the blessings in your life. Try and list them all in your head. Doing this puts things into perspective better.
It’s okay to be stressed about an upcoming test or a fight with your significant other, but before these sorts of things become overbearing, realize how much you have to be thankful for in the grand scheme of things; take a change to count your blessings and you may be surprised just how many of them there are.
In between classes, tests, papers, laundry, the gym, text messages, and Facebook, take a little break to recognize God’s incredible generosity in your life… and then don’t forget to say thank-you for it.
Thursday, September 24, 2009
What it Means to be Catholic
If you've been following this blog for any period of time, you know that at times I post wonderful things that I myself did not write. This is one of those times. The following was written by Megan Francis:
Labeling yourself as a catholic is fairly easy-there are a number of easy ways to display your faith: Wear a cross around your neck. Go to church every Sunday. Say grace before a meal. Celebrate Christmas and Easter with big family dinners. Maybe even honor the Holy Days of Obligation. Be able to recite the Nicene Creed, Our Father. Know the proper prayer responses at appropriate times throughout mass.
Complete these activities. Receive the seven sacraments. Make it through eight years of religion classes –then you can officially, confidentially label yourself as a catholic. However there lies a large distinction between labeling yourself as one and actually living as one.
Living as a devout catholic requires more than just passing tests, reciting prayers, and following traditions-those are merely “requirements” to join the faith community.
challenge you to take your faith a step further, a step deeper than just the label. Constantly keep God as your center. Ask yourself what would Jesus do in this situation? Pray when you don’t have to. Help someone when no one is watching. Go to church even when it’s not Sunday or when there is no one is forcing you to go. Thank God just because. And really LIVE the faith you label yourself a follower of.
Granted living as a catholic certainly is not easy- especially on a college campus in the midst of friends who do not see religion as important. It is a day-to-day challenge that sometimes calls for a great deal of commitment and sacrifice. But it is worth it. Re-evaluate your own faith and see for yourself!
Labeling yourself as a catholic is fairly easy-there are a number of easy ways to display your faith: Wear a cross around your neck. Go to church every Sunday. Say grace before a meal. Celebrate Christmas and Easter with big family dinners. Maybe even honor the Holy Days of Obligation. Be able to recite the Nicene Creed, Our Father. Know the proper prayer responses at appropriate times throughout mass.
Complete these activities. Receive the seven sacraments. Make it through eight years of religion classes –then you can officially, confidentially label yourself as a catholic. However there lies a large distinction between labeling yourself as one and actually living as one.
Living as a devout catholic requires more than just passing tests, reciting prayers, and following traditions-those are merely “requirements” to join the faith community.
challenge you to take your faith a step further, a step deeper than just the label. Constantly keep God as your center. Ask yourself what would Jesus do in this situation? Pray when you don’t have to. Help someone when no one is watching. Go to church even when it’s not Sunday or when there is no one is forcing you to go. Thank God just because. And really LIVE the faith you label yourself a follower of.
Granted living as a catholic certainly is not easy- especially on a college campus in the midst of friends who do not see religion as important. It is a day-to-day challenge that sometimes calls for a great deal of commitment and sacrifice. But it is worth it. Re-evaluate your own faith and see for yourself!
Monday, September 21, 2009
Just in case you had the urge to talk religion in a foreign language
I don't know if anyone would have any need for this, but I seem to keep finding uses for it. It's a website with access to the Bible in every language ... and various versions of the Bible in every language.
http://www.biblegateway.com/
All you need to do is type in what passage you're looking for and in what version of the Bible. (For example New International Version or New American Standard Version for English or Reina-Valera 1960 or Nueva Version Internacional for Spanish). It has 42 languages.
I think it's more interesting than actually useful. but i figured I'd share.
http://www.biblegateway.com/
All you need to do is type in what passage you're looking for and in what version of the Bible. (For example New International Version or New American Standard Version for English or Reina-Valera 1960 or Nueva Version Internacional for Spanish). It has 42 languages.
I think it's more interesting than actually useful. but i figured I'd share.
Sunday, September 20, 2009
hello again
it's been a long and joyous summer, and I'm sure at some point that i will let you know at least a little bit about it. but for now 3 very important things
1. as you begin a new year of living life as a Catholic in both a social and educational environment, never feel alone, there's always others out there for you
2. best of luck with your studies, sports, clubs, theater, singing, musical instruments, and whatever else it is that you pour your passions and energy into.
3. A long-awaited for reading reflection:
Today’s second reading admonishes us for the amount of time we spend worrying about and comparing ourselves to other people. If instead, we focused on being peaceful and understanding others from their own point of view, wars and conflict could cease.
So many times in our daily lives we find ourselves jealous of others: they’re smarter than us; they’re faster than us; their family life seems better than ours. But without knowing the whole story, this jealousy is unfounded. Perhaps their intelligence and speed was not easily attained, but worked for diligently. Or perhaps, that intense speed comes at the cost of being the most ungraceful being to walk the earth.
Most likely, that same person you angrily watch thinking their life is too easy, is jealous of some part of your life as well. The truth of the matter is, we cannot envy a person unless we become that person. Otherwise, the possible circumstances are too great for us to understand.
So this year, instead of feeling greed or jealousy when confronted with the person who seems to have it all, I challenge you to befriend them, find their suffering, and improve their life. Dragging others down will get you nowhere; it’s a utilitarian world, and the happiness of others will lead to personal happiness in your own life.
1. as you begin a new year of living life as a Catholic in both a social and educational environment, never feel alone, there's always others out there for you
2. best of luck with your studies, sports, clubs, theater, singing, musical instruments, and whatever else it is that you pour your passions and energy into.
3. A long-awaited for reading reflection:
Today’s second reading admonishes us for the amount of time we spend worrying about and comparing ourselves to other people. If instead, we focused on being peaceful and understanding others from their own point of view, wars and conflict could cease.
So many times in our daily lives we find ourselves jealous of others: they’re smarter than us; they’re faster than us; their family life seems better than ours. But without knowing the whole story, this jealousy is unfounded. Perhaps their intelligence and speed was not easily attained, but worked for diligently. Or perhaps, that intense speed comes at the cost of being the most ungraceful being to walk the earth.
Most likely, that same person you angrily watch thinking their life is too easy, is jealous of some part of your life as well. The truth of the matter is, we cannot envy a person unless we become that person. Otherwise, the possible circumstances are too great for us to understand.
So this year, instead of feeling greed or jealousy when confronted with the person who seems to have it all, I challenge you to befriend them, find their suffering, and improve their life. Dragging others down will get you nowhere; it’s a utilitarian world, and the happiness of others will lead to personal happiness in your own life.
Monday, June 8, 2009
Special Olympic Track Meet
This past weekend I had the most amazing opportunity: I was asked to coach some local kiddos at the State Championship Special Olympics for Track and Field.
Everyone always preaches about being a good friend, always lending a hand, keeping a smile on your face, and winning and losing gracefully, but few people actually live their lives to such ideals. The children I coached this weekend were perfect role models.
Over the three days I saw so many incredible things and felt truly blessed to be a part of it. At one point I witnessed the young boy who had taken the gold in the 100m dash turn to the kids on either side of him and shaker their hands saying "GREAT JOB" as they received their medals. He said it from the heart, with true enthusiasm. How many times in our own lives have we congratulated someone, but were so caught up in how well we had personally done that we did not mean it, or worse, never said it at all.
Later in the weekend I saw a 19 year old man turn to the 17 year old girl who had beat him in the 25m wheelchair race and give her a high-five while telling his mom "first or second, doesn't really matter, we're all winners and that's what matters." It was beautiful. What was more beautiful is that he meant it too.
Throughout the weekend, events like these were common. So although it was I who was coaching them, I know I gained more from having them around, then they did having me.
the following video has sound, so turn it on before you watch:
Everyone always preaches about being a good friend, always lending a hand, keeping a smile on your face, and winning and losing gracefully, but few people actually live their lives to such ideals. The children I coached this weekend were perfect role models.
Over the three days I saw so many incredible things and felt truly blessed to be a part of it. At one point I witnessed the young boy who had taken the gold in the 100m dash turn to the kids on either side of him and shaker their hands saying "GREAT JOB" as they received their medals. He said it from the heart, with true enthusiasm. How many times in our own lives have we congratulated someone, but were so caught up in how well we had personally done that we did not mean it, or worse, never said it at all.
Later in the weekend I saw a 19 year old man turn to the 17 year old girl who had beat him in the 25m wheelchair race and give her a high-five while telling his mom "first or second, doesn't really matter, we're all winners and that's what matters." It was beautiful. What was more beautiful is that he meant it too.
Throughout the weekend, events like these were common. So although it was I who was coaching them, I know I gained more from having them around, then they did having me.
the following video has sound, so turn it on before you watch:
Wednesday, May 27, 2009
Who were the Gentiles?
In many gospel readings the "Gentiles" are referred to. Two weeks ago, after more than 20 years of growing up in the Catholic faith I realized that I did not know who they were. Was it a nationality? A religion? what? Turns out my parents did not know either. So, naturally. I thought about it ... then forgot about it.
But for some reason I just remembered it, and happened to be sitting with my computer anyway, so I looked it up. (I used ask.com which took me to the international standard bible encyclopedia). This is what I found:
Gentiles, pronounced jen'-tilz, is commonly used for a non-Israelitish people. The Gentiles were far less sharply differentiated from the Israelites in Old Testament than in New Testament times.
Under Old Testament regulations they were simply non-Israelites, not from the stock of Abraham, but they were not hated or despised for that reason, and were to be treated almost on a plane of equality, except certain tribes in Canaan with regard to whom there were special regulations of non-intercourse. The Gentile stranger enjoyed the hospitality of the Israelite who was commanded to love him and to sympathize with him. They had most of the same rights, earned the same respect, given permission to practice the faith in Jewish temples, and were even allowed to rule over Israelites.
But as we approach the Christian era the attitude of the Jews toward the Gentiles changes, until we find, in New Testament times, the most extreme aversion, scorn and hatred. They were regarded as unclean, with whom it was unlawful to have any friendly intercourse. They were the enemies of God and His people, to whom the knowledge of God was denied unless they became proselytes, and even then they could not, as in ancient times, be admitted to full fellowship.
Jews were forbidden to counsel them, and if they asked about Divine things they were to be cursed. All children born of mixed marriages were bastards. That is what caused the Jews to be so hated by Greeks and Romans, as we have abundant evidence in the writings of Cicero, Seneca and Tacitus...
But for some reason I just remembered it, and happened to be sitting with my computer anyway, so I looked it up. (I used ask.com which took me to the international standard bible encyclopedia). This is what I found:
Gentiles, pronounced jen'-tilz, is commonly used for a non-Israelitish people. The Gentiles were far less sharply differentiated from the Israelites in Old Testament than in New Testament times.
Under Old Testament regulations they were simply non-Israelites, not from the stock of Abraham, but they were not hated or despised for that reason, and were to be treated almost on a plane of equality, except certain tribes in Canaan with regard to whom there were special regulations of non-intercourse. The Gentile stranger enjoyed the hospitality of the Israelite who was commanded to love him and to sympathize with him. They had most of the same rights, earned the same respect, given permission to practice the faith in Jewish temples, and were even allowed to rule over Israelites.
But as we approach the Christian era the attitude of the Jews toward the Gentiles changes, until we find, in New Testament times, the most extreme aversion, scorn and hatred. They were regarded as unclean, with whom it was unlawful to have any friendly intercourse. They were the enemies of God and His people, to whom the knowledge of God was denied unless they became proselytes, and even then they could not, as in ancient times, be admitted to full fellowship.
Jews were forbidden to counsel them, and if they asked about Divine things they were to be cursed. All children born of mixed marriages were bastards. That is what caused the Jews to be so hated by Greeks and Romans, as we have abundant evidence in the writings of Cicero, Seneca and Tacitus...
Sunday, May 24, 2009
First Reading Reflection
Today's first reading addresses the issue the apostles faced with replacing Judas to bring their group back up to 12. To me, it brings up three very important points.
1. Look to God when you need help making a decision (and trust Him). Often we are faced with a decision where we have done everything and still do not know what the right decision is. At these points in our lives, it is best to leave the choice to God. That is what the apostles did. They could have argued over it and fretted about it for days, but instead they took a step back, offered up a prayer to God, and let Him decide for them. If we follow this example, we'll find life much less stressful. It takes a lot of confidence to hand over everything to God's will, but the truth is, He knows best, and He won't let you down in the long run.
2. Change can be for the better if you let it. Sometimes we are faced with horrible situations or changes we do not approve of. We were content with the way things were and see no need to embrace changes. However, if we can look beyond our comfort zone, we will be opened up to whole new opportunities. It reminds me of a quote I read somewhere once (and don't recall whom to give credit to) that read: "I believe that everything happens for a reason. People change so that you can learn to let go, things go wrong so that you appreciate them when they're right and sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together". The last sentence, sums up this theme for me. Instead of resisting change and fighting for the way things used to be or "are supposed to be", listen to new ideas, try a new approach, welcome newcomers, and be willing to expand your horizons. in short, let change occur and love it as best you can.
3. It's important to get to know knew members of a group. As humans we are also so different, yet very alike. We all have the same basic needs, and even beyond that their are hundreds of personality traits, likes, dislikes, hopes, dreams, fears, strengths, weaknesses, and beliefs that we could possibly share. In order for a group to function successfully it is essential that we take the time to recognize these similarities. The more cohesive we are, the more productive we will be. It is equally important however to recognize differences. We cannot all work together efficiently if we don't know where we are individually needed. With God in our presence, any group of people can work together: we just have to be patient with one another. Personally, i think it is the most beautiful thing when a group of people who did not know each other previously get together and work together. That is one instance in which it is easy to feel God's presence in our everyday lives.
1. Look to God when you need help making a decision (and trust Him). Often we are faced with a decision where we have done everything and still do not know what the right decision is. At these points in our lives, it is best to leave the choice to God. That is what the apostles did. They could have argued over it and fretted about it for days, but instead they took a step back, offered up a prayer to God, and let Him decide for them. If we follow this example, we'll find life much less stressful. It takes a lot of confidence to hand over everything to God's will, but the truth is, He knows best, and He won't let you down in the long run.
2. Change can be for the better if you let it. Sometimes we are faced with horrible situations or changes we do not approve of. We were content with the way things were and see no need to embrace changes. However, if we can look beyond our comfort zone, we will be opened up to whole new opportunities. It reminds me of a quote I read somewhere once (and don't recall whom to give credit to) that read: "I believe that everything happens for a reason. People change so that you can learn to let go, things go wrong so that you appreciate them when they're right and sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together". The last sentence, sums up this theme for me. Instead of resisting change and fighting for the way things used to be or "are supposed to be", listen to new ideas, try a new approach, welcome newcomers, and be willing to expand your horizons. in short, let change occur and love it as best you can.
3. It's important to get to know knew members of a group. As humans we are also so different, yet very alike. We all have the same basic needs, and even beyond that their are hundreds of personality traits, likes, dislikes, hopes, dreams, fears, strengths, weaknesses, and beliefs that we could possibly share. In order for a group to function successfully it is essential that we take the time to recognize these similarities. The more cohesive we are, the more productive we will be. It is equally important however to recognize differences. We cannot all work together efficiently if we don't know where we are individually needed. With God in our presence, any group of people can work together: we just have to be patient with one another. Personally, i think it is the most beautiful thing when a group of people who did not know each other previously get together and work together. That is one instance in which it is easy to feel God's presence in our everyday lives.
Friday, May 22, 2009
Every Person Has A Story...
... that is what makes us human.
Father LaMorte spoke those words to me and a small group of companions this past week. It's true: all of us have a past. A past that defines us, creates us, helps explain us. It guides our present as well as our future.
Our stories come from a plethora of backgrounds and explain how we got where we are in a multitude of categories: economical, social, familial, religious, the list goes on. It is the last category that we were challenged to think on and explain.
What major event in your life helped you define yourself as Catholic? How did you find out the answers to the Big questions in life and religion? What made you so sure? Answering these questions is a thrilling exercise and I recommend it to anyone who is looking to understand themselves better. The answers are all within you, sometimes it just takes someone else to point them out.
Father LaMorte spoke those words to me and a small group of companions this past week. It's true: all of us have a past. A past that defines us, creates us, helps explain us. It guides our present as well as our future.
Our stories come from a plethora of backgrounds and explain how we got where we are in a multitude of categories: economical, social, familial, religious, the list goes on. It is the last category that we were challenged to think on and explain.
What major event in your life helped you define yourself as Catholic? How did you find out the answers to the Big questions in life and religion? What made you so sure? Answering these questions is a thrilling exercise and I recommend it to anyone who is looking to understand themselves better. The answers are all within you, sometimes it just takes someone else to point them out.
Sunday, May 17, 2009
gospel reflection
Today's gospel reading gives us the seemingly simple message: love. It is only through loving others that you will ever know God. I see two ways in which to interpret this statement.
One, "know God" as in understanding the essence of Him. By loving others we will create a world of happiness, joy, and peace for ourselves, which is the same world God creates. Therefore, by loving others, we will have a glimpse of God's love for the world and thereby also know God more through the simple fact of understanding and experiencing Him.
Two, loving others is our ticket into heaven. Therefore, if we would ever like to see heaven and meet God, we need to love. It is strange to think of God as an individual, but if you can imagine it with me for a moment, love is our invitation to God's party (heaven) where we get to meet with Him personally.
Both interpretations, and I'm sure many others, are correct in the simple fact that they are not incorrect. However, it leaves us with a difficult task: love. What does it mean to truly love others? First off, it means not to hate. We can't be jealous of others, or feel egotistically better than others, or, in a perfect definition of love, angered and annoyed by others.
But the world is not always rainbows and butterflies, it's compromise (sorry, song reference). It's about giving compassion when you can, sharing what you have, accepting everyone for the way they are even when you don't understand why they are that way, lending a helping hand to those in need even when you get nothing in return, and giving the utmost respect to everyone equally.
Love is about the simple choices: a smile, a nod, waiting patiently, taking a few minutes to read your younger sibling a bed time story, letting someone else ride shotgun without complaint, offering to do the dishes, hugs, picking flowers for someone. Basically, anything that brings a small bit of joy of tiny piece of heaven into another's life, is love.
Monday, May 4, 2009
Congrats
I would like to extend my whole-hearted congratulations to the 4 Marist students who received their Confirmation at mass last night and invite everyone to join me in remembering them in their prayers.
Sunday, May 3, 2009
Gospel Reflection
This week's gospel reading reminds us of Jesus' unending love for us as he points out that he freely lays down His life to protect and save us, and will continue to do so as many times as necessary.
However, there is another aspect of this reading that calls out to me more. Jesus says, "And I have other sheep, that are not of this fold; I must bring them also, and they will heed my voice. So there shall be one flock, one shepherd." To me, this is incredibly powerful because as Catholics we often forget the love that God has for everyone, including those not of our faith.
I feel as though, that as Catholics, we often feel superior because we have recognized God's love in our lives and the presence of Jesus Christ our Savior in a very unique and powerful way. However, Jesus does not see us that way; He sees us all as equals. It reminds me of a quote that hung in the locker room of my middle school that read "equal does not mean everyone is given the same, but that everyone is given what they need". For me, this is exactly what Jesus is saying.
Jesus announces that He is willing to lay down his life for His flock - He does not mind making sacrifices for us because He loves us more than we could ever comprehend. In addition, for those that are not in the flock yet, Jesus is giving them equal, if not more, attention in an effort to bring them to the truth so that they can find true love and meaning in life.
I think it is a great reminder not to judge. Just because we may see what we are doing as better than someone else, does not make it so. God gave us all freewill and He loves us no matter what we choose to do with it. I am not saying there are no right and wrong decisions, I am merely saying that those decisions need to be made on an individual level and as individuals we cannot jusge others for their decisions because we can never know their whole story. Jesus loves everyone no matter what. And so should we.
However, there is another aspect of this reading that calls out to me more. Jesus says, "And I have other sheep, that are not of this fold; I must bring them also, and they will heed my voice. So there shall be one flock, one shepherd." To me, this is incredibly powerful because as Catholics we often forget the love that God has for everyone, including those not of our faith.
I feel as though, that as Catholics, we often feel superior because we have recognized God's love in our lives and the presence of Jesus Christ our Savior in a very unique and powerful way. However, Jesus does not see us that way; He sees us all as equals. It reminds me of a quote that hung in the locker room of my middle school that read "equal does not mean everyone is given the same, but that everyone is given what they need". For me, this is exactly what Jesus is saying.
Jesus announces that He is willing to lay down his life for His flock - He does not mind making sacrifices for us because He loves us more than we could ever comprehend. In addition, for those that are not in the flock yet, Jesus is giving them equal, if not more, attention in an effort to bring them to the truth so that they can find true love and meaning in life.
I think it is a great reminder not to judge. Just because we may see what we are doing as better than someone else, does not make it so. God gave us all freewill and He loves us no matter what we choose to do with it. I am not saying there are no right and wrong decisions, I am merely saying that those decisions need to be made on an individual level and as individuals we cannot jusge others for their decisions because we can never know their whole story. Jesus loves everyone no matter what. And so should we.
Wednesday, April 29, 2009
Saint Marcellin Champagnat
If you go to Marist, you have heard of Saint Marcellin Champagnat. If you don't, you probably haven't. April, 18th marked the canonization of Marcellin Champagnat, the founder of the Marist Brothers and namesake of the largest freshman dorm. Marist College is the direct heir to his teaching mission. I would like therefore, to take this opportunity to spread knowledge of who Saint Champagnat was, and more importantly, what he did. In order to do so, I am going to share an article written by my close friend and one of the sweetest people in the world, Nick:
I myself think this is a very lofty and worthy mission - imagine bringing Jesus into the lives of the uneducated and unknowing and not only educating them, but opening up to His love and giving them a basic sense of love for God as well.
Marcellin's story also makes me appreciate my own education. I have been very blessed to receive quality education for the past 16 or 17 years, and I am most definitely not always grateful for how important having such a good education is. It's so easy to complain about the schoolwork and forget that there are others who would give almost anything to have half as good an education that we all receive here at Marist ... thanks to Marcellin Champagnat.
(oh, and just a side note: Marcellin's Champagnat's middle name is Benoit. That explains yet another building name on campus)
At first consideration, one would probably expect that Marcellin Champagnat had excelled in school. In fact, because of the French Revolution until he turned 11, and then only for one day! During class that day, the schoolteacher beat a student who tried to answer a question that had been posed to Marcellin. Horrified, he left school and did not return to formal education until he entered the seminary at age 16.
Although gifted with natural intelligence, Marcellin's lack of formal education cause him to struggle as a student. But that experience was fundamental to his sense of mission. He would later say, "to educate children, you must love them all equally".
On October 28, 1816, three months after his ordination, Marcellin was called to the Montagne home where 16 year-old John Baptiste Montagne was dying. As Marcellin prepared to hear the confession of Jean-Baptiste, he realized the young man had little religious or academic education. It occurred to Marcellin that Jean Baptiste was one of many young people victimized by lack of education during and after the French Revolution.
Marcellin's own difficult experience and his encounter with Jean-Baptiste convinced him that he had to do something to combat the illiteracy and spiritual poverty of the young people in rural France.
To meet this need, Marcellin founded the Marist Brothers.
He said of his community's mission that they were to "serve God with fervor, to fulfill faithfull all the duties of our state, to work every day to detach our heart from creatures in order to give it to Jesus and Mary, to open it to all the movements of grace." The Brothers would find their glory, Marcellin said, in their efforts "to imitate and follow Jesus Christ," guided and strengthened by the Spirit. In all their work among the young, they were "to make Jesus Christ known and loved."
I myself think this is a very lofty and worthy mission - imagine bringing Jesus into the lives of the uneducated and unknowing and not only educating them, but opening up to His love and giving them a basic sense of love for God as well.
Marcellin's story also makes me appreciate my own education. I have been very blessed to receive quality education for the past 16 or 17 years, and I am most definitely not always grateful for how important having such a good education is. It's so easy to complain about the schoolwork and forget that there are others who would give almost anything to have half as good an education that we all receive here at Marist ... thanks to Marcellin Champagnat.
(oh, and just a side note: Marcellin's Champagnat's middle name is Benoit. That explains yet another building name on campus)
Monday, April 27, 2009
Quote of the Day
I've decided that once a week or so I'm going to post a "Quote of the Day". If i was more organized i would promise to post one every Monday, but seeing as I can't even post the gospel reflection on the right day half of the time, I'm not even going to pretend that I'm going to do this on a systematic basis...
But, anyway, I have always loved words. So many people have said so many great and powerful things about virtually everything. I believe these words should be heard.
So, without furthur ado. today's quote:
"He brought light out of darkness, not out of a lesser light, and he can bring thee summer out of winter, though thou hast no spring. Though in the ways of fortune, understanding, or conscience thou hast been benighted till now, wintered and frozen, clouded and eclipsed, damped and benumbed, smothered and stupefied, now God comes to thee, not as the dawning of the day, not as the bud of the spring, but as the sun at noon."
I feel this quote is strangely fitting for this week in particular due to physical literal representation we have seen in regards to weather patterns. Three days ago it was in the 40s and chilly .. the past three days have broken 90 degrees. We went from winter to spring.
Although the quote was not meant to be taken quite this litterally, i think it goes to show the power God has. If we allow Him he can take away all the pain, sorrows, fears, and insecurities (our "winters" if you will) and replace them with hopes, dreams, successes, and smiling faces.
While life will never be perfect, if we never lose sight of what is most important in life (faith, love, etc.), then we will most definately see better days.
But, anyway, I have always loved words. So many people have said so many great and powerful things about virtually everything. I believe these words should be heard.
So, without furthur ado. today's quote:
"He brought light out of darkness, not out of a lesser light, and he can bring thee summer out of winter, though thou hast no spring. Though in the ways of fortune, understanding, or conscience thou hast been benighted till now, wintered and frozen, clouded and eclipsed, damped and benumbed, smothered and stupefied, now God comes to thee, not as the dawning of the day, not as the bud of the spring, but as the sun at noon."
I feel this quote is strangely fitting for this week in particular due to physical literal representation we have seen in regards to weather patterns. Three days ago it was in the 40s and chilly .. the past three days have broken 90 degrees. We went from winter to spring.
Although the quote was not meant to be taken quite this litterally, i think it goes to show the power God has. If we allow Him he can take away all the pain, sorrows, fears, and insecurities (our "winters" if you will) and replace them with hopes, dreams, successes, and smiling faces.
While life will never be perfect, if we never lose sight of what is most important in life (faith, love, etc.), then we will most definately see better days.
Wednesday, April 22, 2009
Stewardship of Spring
Stewardship is the free and joyous activity of the child of God and God's family, the Church, in managing all of life and life's resources for God's purposes. As stewards of God's creation, we are called to build the kingdom of God on earth by using all that had been given to us by God, starting with our time, talents, and treasures.
It's Spring! just look outside and see all the people on the green and you'll know its true. Spring is the time of being outside, of new life, of sunshine, of finals, of procrastination, of new beginings, of flowers, of robins, and of everything green. It is a great time to rejoice.
Like the rest of nature in springtime, we are given the opportunity to 1. begin again and 2. produce good fruit. This is what christian stewardship is all about - responding to God's love in Christ and bringing forth the fruits of our faith.
Spring gives us the assurance that there is hope and joy in life. We are the children of God who have the ability to bring this hope and joy to others. We know, through faith, that the best is yet to come, yet we must also remember that what we do here and now is also important.
God blesses us so that we might bring good things to others. As we manage our own lives, we strive to live demonstrate that we are fruitful stewards in God's eyes. When we give freely and generously of ourselves we show that life is more than about what we have - it's about sharing and giving!
This spring, let the joy and victory of the season be reflected in how you interact with others. Share your time with someone who is lonely; share your talent with someone who may be too timid to ask; share your treasure with someone less fortunate than you.
May God bless you
Pass a Prayer
I was reading a post on the newly created Pass a Prayer blog, and was inspired by a woman's mission to make prayer an everyday part of other people's lives. Her name is Annie, and i think she might be a bit of a genius.
She suggests that whenever we are feeling particularly inspired, overwhelmed, or just in the need of prayer, that we take the time to write the words down and leave them somewhere where they can be found by others.
She explains, "I decided that I would write the words I needed to hear in the form of a prayer and pass it along to whoever may encounter it. So I scrawled the prayer on a scrap piece of paper, dated it, and noted at the bottom to "Pass a prayer..." Then I placed it in the hymnal book."
I personally believe this is a fantastic idea! It's a great oportunity to share God's love with others without being overbearing or awkward.
"I hope that together we can send messages of hope and peace and love to those who need it most. That we can bring unexpected moments of light to those who may feel left in the dark. Or that we can simply bring a smile to someone's face" annie writes.
At the same time, i feel it would add dimensions to our own lives. Writting down your prayer will get your feelings off your chest and probably make the world seem like a better, happier, safer place.
She suggests that whenever we are feeling particularly inspired, overwhelmed, or just in the need of prayer, that we take the time to write the words down and leave them somewhere where they can be found by others.
She explains, "I decided that I would write the words I needed to hear in the form of a prayer and pass it along to whoever may encounter it. So I scrawled the prayer on a scrap piece of paper, dated it, and noted at the bottom to "Pass a prayer..." Then I placed it in the hymnal book."
I personally believe this is a fantastic idea! It's a great oportunity to share God's love with others without being overbearing or awkward.
"I hope that together we can send messages of hope and peace and love to those who need it most. That we can bring unexpected moments of light to those who may feel left in the dark. Or that we can simply bring a smile to someone's face" annie writes.
At the same time, i feel it would add dimensions to our own lives. Writting down your prayer will get your feelings off your chest and probably make the world seem like a better, happier, safer place.
Monday, April 20, 2009
Yesterday's Gospel Reflection
Again, I applogize for being late, although this time I have a legitimate excuse... I was in Florida with the Rugby team at Nationals. (we won one and lost one for those who are interested).
So, without further ado:
So, without further ado:
Today, the eighth and final day of Easter, we are reminded about the importance of our belief. Often in college we are faced with doubters who will attempt to persuade us away from what we know to be the truth. It is important that we hold onto, not only our morals, but the truth that Jesus came to tell us.
This past week is what is referred to as the Octave of Easter, one of three “Octaves” in the church calendar, the others being Christmas and Pentecost. The Octave of Easter does not allow for any other feasts, such as Saint’s days, to be celebrated during the Octave so that the entire attention of the church at that time may be on the redemptive love of God manifested in the resurrection.
It is fitting then, that at the time when our focus is most intent on God’s loving presence in our life , that we are shown how easy it is to doubt. That is not to say that having questions about faith is wrong because everyone does. What it means is that no one should be able to take your faith away from you, and just because you may not be able to see or touch solid proof, your faith should be strong enough to trust in the love that God wants to share with us, as He proved by sharing His only son with us.
Do not be a doubting Thomas.
Trust yourself.
Believe.
Monday, April 13, 2009
Visiting a New Church
I apologize for the large gap in time between the last post and this one. My excuse is a combination of a hectic schedule, writers block, and pure laziness. I am sure you all understand.
Yesterday was Easter. The most important holiday on the Catholic calender. More important even than Christmas. Without Easter, there would be no heaven for us sinners, no eternal salvation for our mortal souls.
Easter is also a day when many of us celebrate mass at a church other than our own. I am one such person. Although being at college I no longer have one set "home parish" because I have a parish at home and another for school, I still always feel strange in a new church.
Every Easter I celebrate the Rising of our Lord at Holy Family Parish in Luzerne, PA, the town where my adorable grandparents live. This church is stunning. The altar and everything on it is made of solid ornate marble, the rows of pews extend further than any church i have ever been in. There are layers of stained glass windows on all four walls and each window has a beautifully depicted scene. The Stations of the cross are made of carved and painted marble and each one stands about 5 ft tall and 3 ft wide. They're awe-inspiring. The lighting is from decorative chandeliers that provide just the right amount of light. The choir sits up and behind the congregation in the balcony.
And if the layout and make up is not enough, the talent their is also exquisite. The choir is breath-taking. They remind me of something straight out of the cathedrals in Rome. They sing solos and 4 part harmonies and they have an assortment of instruments to accompany them. It's so majestic, it's easy to get caught up in the celebrating trumpets - especially on the joyous occasion of Easter Sunday.
But despite all the fanfare, magnificent music, flawless presentation, and gorgeous walls, I always prefer the simplicity of my home church. Saint Joseph's in Spring City can not compete with the ornateness of this church, but its homily warped wood pews, struggling choir, squeaky sound system, and well-worn carpeting make me feel so at home. And the same goes for the Our Lady Seat of Wisdom Chapel at Marist. It may only be able to fit 100 or so students compared to the hundreds Holy Family packed in on the main floor (they have a whole second set up down stairs who can watch the mass on TV), but it feels more special to me.
I think that it is because mass is about the people you share it with; the community. While it is nice to step out of your element and see new places, experience new things, going to church is something we should share with those we are comfortable with. That is why i love going to my own churches: the people.
Yesterday was Easter. The most important holiday on the Catholic calender. More important even than Christmas. Without Easter, there would be no heaven for us sinners, no eternal salvation for our mortal souls.
Easter is also a day when many of us celebrate mass at a church other than our own. I am one such person. Although being at college I no longer have one set "home parish" because I have a parish at home and another for school, I still always feel strange in a new church.
Every Easter I celebrate the Rising of our Lord at Holy Family Parish in Luzerne, PA, the town where my adorable grandparents live. This church is stunning. The altar and everything on it is made of solid ornate marble, the rows of pews extend further than any church i have ever been in. There are layers of stained glass windows on all four walls and each window has a beautifully depicted scene. The Stations of the cross are made of carved and painted marble and each one stands about 5 ft tall and 3 ft wide. They're awe-inspiring. The lighting is from decorative chandeliers that provide just the right amount of light. The choir sits up and behind the congregation in the balcony.
And if the layout and make up is not enough, the talent their is also exquisite. The choir is breath-taking. They remind me of something straight out of the cathedrals in Rome. They sing solos and 4 part harmonies and they have an assortment of instruments to accompany them. It's so majestic, it's easy to get caught up in the celebrating trumpets - especially on the joyous occasion of Easter Sunday.
But despite all the fanfare, magnificent music, flawless presentation, and gorgeous walls, I always prefer the simplicity of my home church. Saint Joseph's in Spring City can not compete with the ornateness of this church, but its homily warped wood pews, struggling choir, squeaky sound system, and well-worn carpeting make me feel so at home. And the same goes for the Our Lady Seat of Wisdom Chapel at Marist. It may only be able to fit 100 or so students compared to the hundreds Holy Family packed in on the main floor (they have a whole second set up down stairs who can watch the mass on TV), but it feels more special to me.
I think that it is because mass is about the people you share it with; the community. While it is nice to step out of your element and see new places, experience new things, going to church is something we should share with those we are comfortable with. That is why i love going to my own churches: the people.
Tuesday, March 31, 2009
This past Sunday I had the wonderfully amazing opportunity to attend what we called Catholic College Student Discussion Day (or something along those lines, pardon my if I'm wrong, it's been a long day). Students from Marist, CIA, Vassar, and New Paltz all gathered together for discussion, games, reflection, the sacrament of reconcliation, adoration, dinner and mass. It was a truly lovely day.
When I left and arrived home at around 8pm I was in one of the best moods ever. I was relaxed and at peace with the world. The discussions we had with our visitors were so open and honest, they were incredible, and the overall theme of the day (renewal) left me with a positive outlook on life.
We discussed and shared many great things, many of which I would stuggle to relate or put into words to share with you. However, three things stood out to me that I would like to share with you:
1. We were created in God's image doesn't mean God has two eyes, 10 fingers and a nose; it means that we were created with intellect and free-will. Our intellect allows us to strive for the truth, and out free-will makes us try and find goodness.
2. The ultimate freedom is love. Even when you are locked in a cell, stripped of choices, or made to do unfathomable things, you have the freedom to refuse to hate. That is powerful.
3. As Catholics we have 3 tasks: Sobriety, Chastity, and Excellence. As college students, that may not be what we want to hear, but they are important goals. The first two are self-explanatory and also well-known. The third jumped out at me as a lofty goal. Sometimes I am content with being mediocre, and not striving to be the best I can be. I realize that is a waste of my God-given talent and I should not do that.
When I left and arrived home at around 8pm I was in one of the best moods ever. I was relaxed and at peace with the world. The discussions we had with our visitors were so open and honest, they were incredible, and the overall theme of the day (renewal) left me with a positive outlook on life.
We discussed and shared many great things, many of which I would stuggle to relate or put into words to share with you. However, three things stood out to me that I would like to share with you:
1. We were created in God's image doesn't mean God has two eyes, 10 fingers and a nose; it means that we were created with intellect and free-will. Our intellect allows us to strive for the truth, and out free-will makes us try and find goodness.
2. The ultimate freedom is love. Even when you are locked in a cell, stripped of choices, or made to do unfathomable things, you have the freedom to refuse to hate. That is powerful.
3. As Catholics we have 3 tasks: Sobriety, Chastity, and Excellence. As college students, that may not be what we want to hear, but they are important goals. The first two are self-explanatory and also well-known. The third jumped out at me as a lofty goal. Sometimes I am content with being mediocre, and not striving to be the best I can be. I realize that is a waste of my God-given talent and I should not do that.
Sunday, March 29, 2009
Gospel Reflection - March 29th
Today’s gospel reading reminds us to prepare ourselves for the coming of Easter. Last weekend was the half way point of Lent, and now, more than ever, it is important that we make ready for the miracle of Easter.
Lent is a time of preparation and reflection. A time in which we can look at our lives and see how we can improve upon them. Many people take Lent as an opportunity to purify their lives by sacrificing something superfluous, yet satisfying. By simplifying their lives they are finding inner peace and making themselves ready to accept the sacrifice of Jesus and the miraculous redemption that comes with his rising from the dead.
Lent can also be a time to reach out to others; to reconnect with old friends, share your faith with strangers, or to strengthen bonds between family members. When today’s gospel says “unless a grain of wheat falls into the earth and dies, it remains alone; but if it dies, it bears much fruit” I am always reminded of our interdependence on one another as human beings.
If we all live within ourselves for ourselves, no one can be truly happy or successful, but if we all work harmoniously at what we excel at or enjoy, a loving, laughing world we will be able to create in which we all have an important role. By thinking of others and not just ourselves, we can improve our own lives by putting smiles on the faces of others.
There are times when we become so caught up in ourselves we miss the splendor of what is really going on around us. I encourage you, for this second half of Lent as you make your final preparations for Easter, to live in a more world-conscious manner. You do not have to win every argument, nor does everything have to go your way in order for you to be at peace. Sometimes, not getting it your way is even more rewarding, and even if not, making someone else’s day by stepping back from your own selfish desires, can be a beautiful experience.
Thursday, March 26, 2009
The Pope
This was also written by my friend Megan Francis (she's one of the co-writers for the Marist Chapel Newsletter). I will be taking her articles every now and then and posting them here for your enjoyment.
Last April, the United States had the privilege of getting to host the Holy Father, Pope Benedict the Sixteenth in our nation. Streets were closed off and people stopped their usual activities to watch and listen to the pope visit the White House, United Nations and celebrate mass at Yankee Stadium, and throughout Manhattan. After realizing the year anniversary of the pope’s visit quickly approaching, I began to wonder…besides representing God on Earth, what does the pope actually do?
After doing a little research, I found some interesting answers: the pope is the head of the Roman Catholic Church, which claims 1.07 billion followers worldwide — more than 17 percent of the world's population — including 67.2 million in the United States.
Besides assuming that title, his responsibilities are very similar to those of an American President. He is the head of Vatican City, the world's smallest nation, which is surrounded by the city of Rome. Covering 108 acres, Vatican City is about one-fifth the size of Seattle's Discovery Park and was listed last year as having a population of 921.
He is the bishop of Rome, and leads and governs the church. With the aid of his staff and church offices, he makes policy and pastoral decisions, including appointing bishops, regulating liturgical practices and managing church finances.
I found some interesting facts about popes while on my search as well: for instance, the title pope stems from the Greek word papas, which simply means 'father.' Early in Christian history it was used as a formal title expressing affectionate respect for any bishop and sometimes even priests.
Of the 265 popes 205 were Italians, (of whom 106 were Romans), and 57 foreigners; comprised of 19 Frenchmen, 14 Greeks, 8 Syrians, 6 Germans, 3 Africans, 2 Spaniards, 1 Austrian, 1 Palestinian, 1 Englishman, 1 Dutchman, and 1 Pole.
The most commonly used name is John (23 times), followed by Gregory (16 times), Benedict (16 times); 43 names were used only once. Only two Popes have taken two names; John Paul I and II. Poe Leo, St. Leo I (the Great) (440 - 461) the first pope to explicitly claim authority over the entire Christian Church, East and West.
Though popes’ every action and decision are not covered as heavily by the media as the presidents’ are, popes certainly have duties which are worthy of just as much attention!
Last April, the United States had the privilege of getting to host the Holy Father, Pope Benedict the Sixteenth in our nation. Streets were closed off and people stopped their usual activities to watch and listen to the pope visit the White House, United Nations and celebrate mass at Yankee Stadium, and throughout Manhattan. After realizing the year anniversary of the pope’s visit quickly approaching, I began to wonder…besides representing God on Earth, what does the pope actually do?
After doing a little research, I found some interesting answers: the pope is the head of the Roman Catholic Church, which claims 1.07 billion followers worldwide — more than 17 percent of the world's population — including 67.2 million in the United States.
Besides assuming that title, his responsibilities are very similar to those of an American President. He is the head of Vatican City, the world's smallest nation, which is surrounded by the city of Rome. Covering 108 acres, Vatican City is about one-fifth the size of Seattle's Discovery Park and was listed last year as having a population of 921.
He is the bishop of Rome, and leads and governs the church. With the aid of his staff and church offices, he makes policy and pastoral decisions, including appointing bishops, regulating liturgical practices and managing church finances.
I found some interesting facts about popes while on my search as well: for instance, the title pope stems from the Greek word papas, which simply means 'father.' Early in Christian history it was used as a formal title expressing affectionate respect for any bishop and sometimes even priests.
Of the 265 popes 205 were Italians, (of whom 106 were Romans), and 57 foreigners; comprised of 19 Frenchmen, 14 Greeks, 8 Syrians, 6 Germans, 3 Africans, 2 Spaniards, 1 Austrian, 1 Palestinian, 1 Englishman, 1 Dutchman, and 1 Pole.
The most commonly used name is John (23 times), followed by Gregory (16 times), Benedict (16 times); 43 names were used only once. Only two Popes have taken two names; John Paul I and II. Poe Leo, St. Leo I (the Great) (440 - 461) the first pope to explicitly claim authority over the entire Christian Church, East and West.
Though popes’ every action and decision are not covered as heavily by the media as the presidents’ are, popes certainly have duties which are worthy of just as much attention!
Tuesday, March 24, 2009
Gospel Reflection ... 1 day late
At first hearing, I have to be honest and admit that I thought today's gospel reading to be boring. Not that it isn't well-written and meaningful, but just that the idea that God loves us seems so basic.
Upon further reflection though I relalized that my attitude is exactly the point of the reading. God loves us more than anything; He sacrificed His only son for us! And yet, here I sit, completely unimpressed by his compassion and unrelenting devotion towards me.
And what have I done to deserve this undying love? I was born; I exist; I like to think that I am a good wholesome person for the most part; but what have I done to deserve the unconditional love that the almighty Father not only offers me, but bestows upon me even when I am not expecting or especially deserving of it?
As I look around me I can see all the small wonders God has made, simply for my enjoyment because he loves me. Every smiling face, every tiny child's hand, each blooming flower, each melodious note, every seemingly insignificant moment of everyday that manages to put a smile on my face or lift my spirits is a gift from God because he really truly loves me and wants to make my life good.
That's incredible.
I should be more thankful.
Thanks God. I love You too.
Upon further reflection though I relalized that my attitude is exactly the point of the reading. God loves us more than anything; He sacrificed His only son for us! And yet, here I sit, completely unimpressed by his compassion and unrelenting devotion towards me.
And what have I done to deserve this undying love? I was born; I exist; I like to think that I am a good wholesome person for the most part; but what have I done to deserve the unconditional love that the almighty Father not only offers me, but bestows upon me even when I am not expecting or especially deserving of it?
As I look around me I can see all the small wonders God has made, simply for my enjoyment because he loves me. Every smiling face, every tiny child's hand, each blooming flower, each melodious note, every seemingly insignificant moment of everyday that manages to put a smile on my face or lift my spirits is a gift from God because he really truly loves me and wants to make my life good.
That's incredible.
I should be more thankful.
Thanks God. I love You too.
Saturday, March 21, 2009
a 24 hour car ride
For Spring break this year 3 friends and I decided to drive to Florida for a mini vacation. The money we would save in gas would be worth the long drive we reasoned, and now that we're back, I would still say it was a good decision. Despite the sore butts, slightly cramped conditions, gross fast food, and bad radio station music, the trip was highly successful, and I would do it again in a heart beat.
While in the car I had a plethora of time on my hands to pass. Instead of being bored, I accepted it and used it for my peace of mind. Not only was able to have several good conversations with my traveling companions, I also found the time to reflect on the wonderful world around me and God's role in it.
At one point I blocked out the noise of the ride and talked to God. I thanked him for the wonderful trip that we had, for my friends, for the decent driving conditions, and just for being present in my life. Often times I am so busy that I do not have time to have full conversations with God and our discussions are limited to hasty thank-yous or one-minute requests. God deserves better than this and this looong car ride was the perfect time for me to reflect on life and my role in it.
Now, i did not come to any epiphany or grand conclusion, but it was wonderful to be able to settle back and just talk to God. I had forgotten how relaxing it could be and it was great to reconnect. I felt so at peace by the time I was done.
The trip also reminded me of God's ever-presence. Although it may have been hard to admire the South Carolinian landscape while flying down I-95 at 90 miles per hour, we still noticed the small things. I saw marvelous bridges, goregous shooting water fountains, awe-inspiring rock-faces, miles and miles of open lush greenness, and massive cloud-free blue skies; I could feel the warm sun, spy the twinkling stars, hear the tapping of the warm rain on the wind-shield and sense the warmth and comfort of friendship, and, in it all, I found the omnicient ever-present power of God.
While in the car I had a plethora of time on my hands to pass. Instead of being bored, I accepted it and used it for my peace of mind. Not only was able to have several good conversations with my traveling companions, I also found the time to reflect on the wonderful world around me and God's role in it.
At one point I blocked out the noise of the ride and talked to God. I thanked him for the wonderful trip that we had, for my friends, for the decent driving conditions, and just for being present in my life. Often times I am so busy that I do not have time to have full conversations with God and our discussions are limited to hasty thank-yous or one-minute requests. God deserves better than this and this looong car ride was the perfect time for me to reflect on life and my role in it.
Now, i did not come to any epiphany or grand conclusion, but it was wonderful to be able to settle back and just talk to God. I had forgotten how relaxing it could be and it was great to reconnect. I felt so at peace by the time I was done.
The trip also reminded me of God's ever-presence. Although it may have been hard to admire the South Carolinian landscape while flying down I-95 at 90 miles per hour, we still noticed the small things. I saw marvelous bridges, goregous shooting water fountains, awe-inspiring rock-faces, miles and miles of open lush greenness, and massive cloud-free blue skies; I could feel the warm sun, spy the twinkling stars, hear the tapping of the warm rain on the wind-shield and sense the warmth and comfort of friendship, and, in it all, I found the omnicient ever-present power of God.
Friday, March 13, 2009
I am newly addicted to something called Stumble Upon. It is an interesting website that allows you to "stumble" through websites aimlessly and randomly. Some of them are interesting or entertaining. Every now again however, you find something really worth while. Tonight I found one such website. The story (the one I will share with you in a moment once i'm done rambling) is really touching. It demonstrates what it means to live your life thinking of others instead of yourself.
Instead of rushing or being selfish, the cab driver in the following story took time out of his own life to make someone else's day a little bit better. It often does not take a lot to change someone's entire mood: a kind word, a nod of appreciation, a simple wave ... all these small gestures can mean lots to a stranger, or even a friend. You never know what kind of day someone is having and how little you may have to do to make it better. You never know someone's entire life story, so don't judge, and just do what you can to be the best person you can be. You never know how you can put a smile on the face of your neighbor, so read this story and be encouraged...
Also, take the time to enjoy
the small things in life ...
Don't Worry. Be happy. Relax. Make friends.
Share. Smile. Laugh. Love. Live.
Instead of rushing or being selfish, the cab driver in the following story took time out of his own life to make someone else's day a little bit better. It often does not take a lot to change someone's entire mood: a kind word, a nod of appreciation, a simple wave ... all these small gestures can mean lots to a stranger, or even a friend. You never know what kind of day someone is having and how little you may have to do to make it better. You never know someone's entire life story, so don't judge, and just do what you can to be the best person you can be. You never know how you can put a smile on the face of your neighbor, so read this story and be encouraged...
Twenty years ago, I drove a cab for a living.
It was a cowboy’s life, a life for someone who wanted no boss.
What I didn’t realize was that it was also a ministry.
Because I drove the night shift, my cab became a moving confessional. Passengers climbed in, sat behind me in total anonymity, and told me about their lives. I encountered people whose lives amazed me, ennobled me, and made me laugh and weep.
But none touched me more than a woman I picked up late one August night. I was responding to a call from a small brick fourplex in a quiet part of town. I assumed I was being sent to pick up some partyers, or someone who had just had a fight with a lover, or a worker heading to an early shift at some factory for the industrial part of town.
When I arrived at 2:30 a.m., the building was dark except for a single light in a ground floor window.
Under these circumstances, many drivers would just honk once or twice, wait a minute, then drive away.
But I had seen too many impoverished people who depended on taxis as their only means of transportation.
Unless a situation smelled of danger, I always went to the door. This passenger might be someone who needs my assistance, I reasoned to myself.
So I walked to the door and knocked. “Just a minute”, answered a frail, elderly voice. I could hear something being dragged across the floor.After a long pause, the door opened. A small woman in her 80’s stood before me. She was wearing a print dress and a pillbox hat with a veil pinned on it, like somebody out of a 1940s movie. By her side was a small nylon suitcase. The apartment looked as if no one had lived in it for years. All the furniture was covered with sheets. There were no clocks on the walls, no knick-knacks or utensils on the counters. In the corner was a cardboard box filled with photos and glassware.
“Would you carry my bag out to the car?” she said. I took the suitcase to the cab, then returned to assist the woman. She took my arm and we walked slowly toward the curb. She kept thanking me for my kindness.
“It’s nothing”, I told her. “I just try to treat my passengers the way I would want my mother treated.”
“Oh, you’re such a good boy”, she said. When we got in the cab, she gave me an address, then asked, “Could you drive through downtown?”
“It’s not the shortest way,” I answered quickly.
“Oh, I don’t mind,” she said. “I’m in no hurry. I’m on my way to a hospice.”
I looked in the rear view mirror. Her eyes were glistening.
“I don’t have any family left,” she continued. “The doctor says I don’t have very long.”
I quietly reached over and shut off the meter. “What route would you like me to take?” I asked.
For the next two hours, we drove through the city. She showed me the building where she had once worked as an elevator operator. We drove through the neighborhood where she and her husband had lived when they were newlyweds. She had me pull up in front of a furniture warehouse that had once been a ballroom where she had gone dancing as a girl. Sometimes she’d ask me to slow in front of a particular building or corner and would sit staring into the darkness, saying nothing.
As the first hint of sun was creasing the horizon, she suddenly said, “I’m tired. Let’s go now.”
We drove in silence to the address she had given me. It was a low building, like a small convalescent home, with a driveway that passed under a portico. Two orderlies came out to the cab as soon as we pulled up. They were solicitous and intent, watching her every move. They must have been expecting her. I opened the trunk and took the small suitcase to the door. The woman was already seated in a wheelchair.
“How much do I owe you?” she asked, reaching into her purse.
“Nothing,” I said.
“You have to make a living,” she answered.
“There are other passengers”.
Almost without thinking, I bent and gave her a hug. She held onto me tightly.
“You gave an old woman a little moment of joy,” she said. “Thank you.”
I squeezed her hand, then walked into the dim morning light. Behind me, a door shut. It was the sound of the closing of a life.
I didn’t pick up any more passengers that shift. I drove aimlessly, lost in thought. For the rest of that day, I could hardly talk. What if that woman had gotten an angry driver, or one who was impatient to end his shift? What if I had refused to take the run, or had honked once, then driven away?
On a quick review, I don’t think that I have done anything more important in my life.
We’re conditioned to think that our lives revolve around great moments. But great moments often catch us unaware - beautifully wrapped in what others may consider a small one
Also, take the time to enjoy
the small things in life ...
Don't Worry. Be happy. Relax. Make friends.
Share. Smile. Laugh. Love. Live.
Monday, March 9, 2009
"Between You And God" Poem
Being as it is mid-terms week, I am finding it difficult to have time to spend a lot of time on this. . However, i would like to share one of my favorite quotes with you. I guess it is technically more of a poem than a quote, but however you want to look at it is fine. It's accredited to Mother Teresa because it was written on the wall of her children's home in India:
People are often unreasonable, irrational, and self-centered. Forgive them anyway.
If you are kind, people may accuse you of selfish, ulterior motives. Be kind anyway.
If you are successful, you will win some unfaithful friends and some genuine enemies. Succeed anyway.
If you are honest and sincere people may deceive you. Be honest and sincere anyway.
What you spend years creating, others could destroy overnight. Create anyway.
If you find serenity and happiness, some may be jealous. Be happy anyway.
The good you do today, will often be forgotten. Do good anyway.
Give the best you have, and it will never be enough. Give your best anyway.
In the final analysis, it is between you and God.
It was never between you and them anyway.
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I think it is a very uplifting peice. As human beings we often become overwhelmed by what others think of us. We allow others to judge us and let it affect us. As college students, I feel that often times what we put hours of effort into can be easily overlooked by professors, parents, and especially our peers. This can be very frustrating and disapointing. If we instead look for satisfaction from within ourselves and work hard to please ourselves and God than we will feel much more rewarded for our efforts.
Good luck to everyone else out there with tests to study for. I'll try and write again later this week, but if i disapear for a bit, you know it's into my room to study...
Sunday, March 8, 2009
Gospel Reflection
In this week’s gospel reading, Jesus challenges us to forget about the things of this life and worry about the more important things, such as our immortal souls, getting into heaven, and being faithful to the commandments. In our fast-paced and materialistic society, it is often hard to turn away from the newest electronic device and choose simplicity instead.
We, as college students in America, are surrounded by video games, movies, television, loud music, expensive accessories, and excess food. We do not like the prospect of having to give any of this up. When Jesus asks us to make our lives simpler, we automatically think of making our lives more difficult or more boring and we recoil from this idea. However, this is not the case.
In my opinion, He is merely imploring us to recognize them as the material goods they are and to not give them more thought and time than they deserve. He is not banning material items, but reminding us that there are much more important matters to spend time on.
Instead of spending your entire weekend lounging around, watching TV, playing video games, and going out to dinner, why not take 20 minutes each day for yourself as a time of inner reflection?
Go for a walk, read a book, or close yourself in your room and meditate while listening to music; take an opportunity to welcome God back into your life on weekly, if not daily, basis.
Jesus does not expect us to completely turn away from all modern conveniences, He just asks us to not become consumed by them. He asks us to make time for Him in a society that no longer has time for afternoon tea and long walks. He asks us to never be embarrassed of our faith in a society that is increasing placing more pressure on those who are religious. He asks us to keep room in our lives for the things of God, even when the world is overwhelming consumed with the things of men.
Saturday, March 7, 2009
Reducing Stress
A month ago or so my friend Megan Francis wrote about dealing with stress as a Catholic, and seeing as it's midterms week, i thought it would be apt to share her thoughts with the world.
People often perceive college solely as this carefree zone where stress and anxiety are presumably non-existent. But any college student will tell you: it is stressful! The fact that we are only in class for two and a half hours a day creates this illusion of “free time” which can be spent doing an array of tempting activities. Meanwhile that term paper sits patiently on your desk waiting to be written while the dead line steadily approaches. Managing time is probably the hardest skill a college student can master, and it’s the one you don’t spend a year learning about in high school. Feeling like there are not enough hours in the day to accomplish all your work and to still be able to take advantage of your “free time” ,is the ultimate precursor to stress.
So what should you do when you are feeling so overwhelmed you have made too many post-its to keep track of and the weekend seems like it will never come?
Most psychologists and stress reducing experts recommend writing, running/exercising, and listening to music as ways to manage stress. While I am a big fan of all three, there might be an even healthier, simpler alternative: talking.
Talking with relatives and friends about your stressors can be very therapeutic. When you are extremely stressed though, I recommend you do the following: s l o w d o w n. Take a walk or just let yourself be truly embraced in the here and now. Concentrate on your breathing and your anxiety producing thoughts. This is the perfect opportunity to talk to God. Call upon Him for help, guidance, and ask Him to “to protect [you] from all anxiety.” Try finding even the smallest things that you are thankful for that happened either that particular morning or week and thank God for that blessing.
As college students, it’s so easy to get lost in our own worlds. It’s so easy to become preoccupied solely with our tests, papers, jobs, and friends-we are all guilty of this fault, myself included. As for a solution, try re-centering yourself. Pray about it. Ask God to present himself as number one in your life again and then, maybe, hopefully, whatever was once stressing you out will seem less like a losing battle you are fighting alone, and instead will mirror more of a conquest you will be able to conquer with God as your light, protector, and strength.
Friday, March 6, 2009
My Five Favorite Christian Songs (+1)
I recognize that normally when you make lists such as these, you rank them in some order, but the truth is I can’t really do that. They’re all very different and I like them all for what they are. So these are just the top 5 (+1) not a countdown…
1. Mary Did You Know – Kenny Rogers
First, I apologize for starting off with a Christmas song, but I can’t help it, it’s one of my favorite songs of all time. This song has been done many times, including recent versions by Clay Aiken and David Archuletta, but I heard it by Kenny Rogers first and I’ve always been partial to that version. It is easily one of my favorite Christmas songs. The message is very powerful for me and really forces me to think more deeply about Mary’s role in the Christmas story.
2. Keep the Candle Burning – Point of Grace
I wasn’t entirely sure if I could choose just one song from Point of Grace to go on this list because there are so many amazing ones. I finally settled on this one because I like the beat. It’s catchy and it tends to get stuck in my head.
3. If We are the Body – Casting Crowns
No list of religious music would be complete without something from the Casting Crowns. They’re probably one of the most well-known Christian musical groups in the United States and were recently nominated for both artist of the year and group of the year. The words of this song are incredibly powerful challenging each of us to do our part to reach out and touch the lives of those around us. It emphasizes the importance of being a loving and community-oriented human being
4. Youth of the Nation – POD
I’m not really a fan of POD (Payable On Death) as a band, but I can recognize good powerful music when I hear it. Youth of the Nation addresses the extreme hardships and challenges some young people face today and speaks wonders to the importance of reaching out to a neighbor and making the best of every moment. It addresses how quickly life can change and also how important it is to be there for others.
5. Psalms 150 – J Moss
This song is just fun. It’s about second chances and the almighty, unquestionable, yet incomprehensible power of God.
6. God is Bigger than the Boogie Man – Veggie Tales
Okay, okay, I recognize that including this in my favorite Christian songs is kinda (completely) ridiculous, but I absolutely LOVED Veggie Tales when I was younger (I still do actually). This song has a lot of pep and the entire idea speaks to me. Obviously it was written for elementary schoolers, but the idea of trusting God with your problems and fears is something that is important at any age. In college it is easy to feel overwhelmed, but if we recognize that God is still always in control, it takes a lot of the stress off.
Enjoy! :)
Thursday, March 5, 2009
Forgiveness ... It's Tough
Do you know how hard it is to truly forgive someone? I mean think about it. You say "i forgive you" or more likely "forget it" in today's world, but do you? Do you really immediately forget what they did and never use what you just forgave them for to make decisions in the future? It's impossible. We're only human.
Susan Wade Brown, Ph.D. created a self-test that helps us address our own ability to forgive others
Knowing this, how much harder it is, even, to ask for that forgiveness. Asking for forgiveness sucks. It means having to admit that you were wrong and living with that embarrassment.In today’s society, I feel that the step of forgiveness is often overlooked because it is too awkward, too painful, and too emotional. Instead, both parties just tend to assume forgiveness has occurred without it ever actually taking place.
Even when applied to the church, a lot of people run away from forgiveness; many openly admit their fear or dislike of the sacrament of Reconciliation. I, for one, don't believe I have ever met anyone who is thrilled to go to confession. The entire idea of going before someone you respect (the priest) and admitting all the times you have failed is scary. Add the dimension of GOD sitting there listening and it's horrifying
So I ask you;: Do you know the healing power of forgiveness? Have you allowed yourself to feel that grace? Or have you been too self-conscious to ask for it?
We know from experience that God is more than willing to forgive and accept us back. It is our own limitations that keep us from asking.When a cripple was brought to Jesus because of the faith of his friends, Jesus did the unthinkable. He first forgave the man his sins. Then he restored his body as well. Jesus can do the same for you; you only have to ask.
The Lord is always ready to bring us healing of soul, body, and mind. We just have to sum up the courage to let Him.
Welcome :D
Hey guys!
I guess it is standard that in the first blog post on a new blog you introduce yourself and state your intent. My name is Amanda Benton and I'm a sophmore advertising major at Marist College. I am starting this blog to advance the readership of and broaden the Marist Chapel newsletter. I also think it is important that Catholic students have a place where they can feel comfortable sharing their opinions and letting their voices be heard. I myself have no real authority on the issues I will be blogging about, they're just my opinion, and I have just as many questions about my faith as most of you.
I guess it is standard that in the first blog post on a new blog you introduce yourself and state your intent. My name is Amanda Benton and I'm a sophmore advertising major at Marist College. I am starting this blog to advance the readership of and broaden the Marist Chapel newsletter. I also think it is important that Catholic students have a place where they can feel comfortable sharing their opinions and letting their voices be heard. I myself have no real authority on the issues I will be blogging about, they're just my opinion, and I have just as many questions about my faith as most of you.
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