First Reading Reflection

Today's first reading addresses the issue the apostles faced with replacing Judas to bring their group back up to 12. To me, it brings up three very important points.

1. Look to God when you need help making a decision (and trust Him). Often we are faced with a decision where we have done everything and still do not know what the right decision is. At these points in our lives, it is best to leave the choice to God. That is what the apostles did. They could have argued over it and fretted about it for days, but instead they took a step back, offered up a prayer to God, and let Him decide for them. If we follow this example, we'll find life much less stressful. It takes a lot of confidence to hand over everything to God's will, but the truth is, He knows best, and He won't let you down in the long run.

2. Change can be for the better if you let it. Sometimes we are faced with horrible situations or changes we do not approve of. We were content with the way things were and see no need to embrace changes. However, if we can look beyond our comfort zone, we will be opened up to whole new opportunities. It reminds me of a quote I read somewhere once (and don't recall whom to give credit to) that read: "I believe that everything happens for a reason. People change so that you can learn to let go, things go wrong so that you appreciate them when they're right and sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together". The last sentence, sums up this theme for me. Instead of resisting change and fighting for the way things used to be or "are supposed to be", listen to new ideas, try a new approach, welcome newcomers, and be willing to expand your horizons. in short, let change occur and love it as best you can.

3. It's important to get to know knew members of a group. As humans we are also so different, yet very alike. We all have the same basic needs, and even beyond that their are hundreds of personality traits, likes, dislikes, hopes, dreams, fears, strengths, weaknesses, and beliefs that we could possibly share. In order for a group to function successfully it is essential that we take the time to recognize these similarities. The more cohesive we are, the more productive we will be. It is equally important however to recognize differences. We cannot all work together efficiently if we don't know where we are individually needed. With God in our presence, any group of people can work together: we just have to be patient with one another. Personally, i think it is the most beautiful thing when a group of people who did not know each other previously get together and work together. That is one instance in which it is easy to feel God's presence in our everyday lives.